From We to Me: Embracing Life Again After the Death or Divorce of a Spouse

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While we don't like to think about it, marriages eventually do come to an end, either with the death of a spouse or tragically through divorce. This "end" of a relationship leaves the other partner alone and facing an uncertain future. Whether widowed or divorced, the feeling and experience of aloneness--moving from being a "we to a me"---is a common one. This latest book from noted grief experts and authors Zonnebelt-Smeenge and De Vries focuses on two of five grief journey tasks--separating oneself and reinvesting fully in one's own life--offering a unique self-help, psychological, and spiritual guide for the process of helping either the widowed or divorced to redefine and reinvest in life.
 

Contents

Introduction and Acknowledgments
9
Rediscovering Yourself
19
Filling the Voids When
41
Things You Need to Know
79
A Sequel to The Second Time
99
The Art of Parenting
121
A Sequel to Blended
141
Notes
174
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About the author (2010)

Susan Zonnebelt-Smeenge is a licensed clinical psychologist working for Pine Rest Christian Mental Health Services.

Robert C. De Vries is emeritus professor of church education at Calvin Theological Seminary and an ordained pastor.

They are the authors of Getting to the Other Side of Grief, The Empty Chair, and Traveling through Grief. They live in Grand Rapids, Michigan.

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