Where Men Hide
"If you ask men if they spend any time hiding, they usually look at you as if you're nuts. 'What, me hide?' But if you ask women whether men hide, they immediately know what you mean."--from Where Men Hide
Where Men Hide is a spirited tour of the dark and often dirty places men go to find comfort, camaraderie, relaxation, and escape. Ken Ross's striking photographs and James Twitchell's lively analysis trace the evolution of these virtual caves, and question why they are rapidly disappearing.
Ross documents both traditional and contemporary male haunts, such as bars, barbershops, lodges, pool halls, strip clubs, garages, deer camps, megachurches, the basement Barcalounger, and Twitchell examines their provenance, purpose, and appeal. He finds that for centuries men have met with each other in underground lairs and clubhouses to conduct business or, in the case of strip clubs and the modern rec room, to bond and indulge in shady entertainments. In these secret dens, certain rules are abandoned while others are obeyed. However, Twitchell sees this less as exclusionary behavior and more as the result of social anxiety: when women want to get together, they just do it; when men get together, it's a production.
Drawing on literary, historical, and pop cultural sources, Twitchell connects the places men hide with figures like Hemingway and Huck Finn, Frederick Jackson Turner's theory of the American frontier, and the mythological interpretations of Joseph Campbell and Robert Bly. Instead of blaming the disappearance of the man-cave solely on feminism, simple fair play, or the demands of Title IX, Twitchell believes this evaporation is due as well to the rise of solitary pursuits such as driving, watching television, and playing videogames.
By blending together anecdote, research, and keen observation, Ross and Twitchell bring this little-discussed and controversial phenomenon to light.
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LibraryThing ReviewUser Review - shannonkearns - LibraryThing
a book about the places that men have called their own. i really enjoyed this look into different places and hearing about the histories of them and also reading about why they are disappearing. the photos that illustrated each place were beautiful. Read full review
Where men hideUser Review - Not Available - Book Verdict
Twitchell (English, Univ. of Florida;Branded Nation ) turns his eye to the places to which men retreat with the intent of excluding women: deer camps, baseball dugouts, boxing rings, the garage, and ... Read full review
The Deer Camp THE HUNT
The Boxing Ring SHAME AND HONOR
The Fraternal Lodge INITIATION OF BROTHERHOOD
The Snuggery FATHERS SONS AND TRAINS
A Room of His Own TWO OF MANS BEST FRIENDS
The Garage CAR AND CALENDAR
Getting Outta Here MY WHEELS MY SELF
The Recliner Chair HIDING IN PLAIN SIGHT
Strip Clubs HIDING BEHIND THE OGLE
Aah lurve this place THE MALE WAV OF EATING
The Workshop Warren HAMMER TIME
On the Job HIDING OUT IN THE OFFICE
Male Bonding for God MEGACHURCH AND PROMISE KEEPERS