When Your Lover Is a Liar: Healing the Wounds of Deception and Betrayal
Have you ever been lied to by a lover? In this straightforward and supportive book, therapist Susan Forward profiles the wide variety of liars, shows you how to deal with the lies -- from the benign to the lethal -- that these men spin, and gives practical strategies to stop them before they ruin your relationship and, ultimately, your life.
Once you find out the truth about your lover and his lies, what do you do? Forward offers practical, proven, step-by-step methods for healing the wounds caused by his deception and betrayal. She provides all the communication and behavioral techniques you need to deal with a lover's lies, telling you exactly what to say, when and how to respond to his reactions, and how to present your requirements for staying in the relationship. With understanding and compassion, she helps you decide whether your relationship can be saved and shows you how to move beyond doubt and regret if you feel that it can't. But whether you stay or go, you can learn to love and trust again.
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Review: When Your Lover Is a Liar: Healing the Wounds of Deception and BetrayalUser Review - Aliki - Goodreads
Eye opening and poignant. A life saver for me. With real practical advice you can use. Read full review
Review: When Your Lover Is a Liar: Healing the Wounds of Deception and BetrayalUser Review - Janelle Westfall - Goodreads
Particularly good chapters regarding recovery from an abusive relationship with a narcissist/socio/psychopath. Read full review
The Moment of Truth
Confrontation and Clarity
Handling His Responses
If You Stay
If You Leave
Learning to Trust Again