Torn Asunder (Google eBook)
Written by respected pastor and marriage counselor Dave Carder, this revised and expanded version of Torn Asunder sorts through the factors that contribute to infidelity and then maps out a recovery process for both partners. With compassion and wisdom rooted in the Bible, Carder offers insight for the victims of adultery, the perpetrators, and those who seek to help hurting couples.
Along the way Carder also answers questions like:Why did this happen? We didn't actually sleep together. Is it still an affair? Can I trust my spouse again? Should I reveal a secret affair? What if my spouse doesn't want me back? What do we tell the kids?
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Torn AsunderUser Review - Overstock.com
This is an excellent book for people who have been affected by adultery. Adultery is not something I wish for anyone and this book is a good start in trying to understand how and why it happens.
Very HelpfulUser Review - DeeDee - Christianbook.com
Still working through the workbook, but very beneficial. Read full review
Getting Good Out of Getting Mad
10 Can I Trust You Again? Rebuilding Trust
Section 3 SPECIAL CIRCUMSTANCES
12 To Tell or Not to Tell? The Secret Affair
Hooked PlayedOut and Desperate for Release
The 90Day Experiment
What to Tell the Kids
5 Other Factors Contributing to Infidelity
Section 2 HEALING FROM AFFAIRS
The Infidels Process
The Spouses Process
8 Why? Deciphering the Message of the Affair
Materials for Use with a Couples Support Group
Marital Satisfaction Time Line
Selected Marriage and Recovery Resources