Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and A World Without Rape (Google eBook)

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Seal Press, Dec 2, 2008 - Health & Fitness - 256 pages
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In this groundbreaking new look at rape edited by writer and activist Jaclyn Freidman and Full Frontal Feminism and He's A Stud, She's A Slut author Jessica Valenti, the way we view rape in our culture is finally dismantled and replaced with a genuine understanding and respect for female sexual pleasure. Feminist, political, and activist writers alike will present their ideas for a paradigm shift from the "No Means No" model--an approach that while necessary for where we were in 1974, needs an overhaul today.
Yes Means Yes will bring to the table a dazzling variety of perspectives and experiences focused on the theory that educating all people to value female sexuality and pleasure leads to viewing women differently, and ending rape. Yes Means Yes aims to have radical and far-reaching effects: from teaching men to treat women as collaborators and not conquests, encouraging men and women that women can enjoy sex instead of being shamed for it, and ultimately, that our children can inherit a world where rape is rare and swiftly punished. With commentary on public sex education, pornography, mass media, Yes Means Yes is a powerful and revolutionary anthology.
  

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Review: Yes Means Yes!: Visions of Female Sexual Power and A World Without Rape

User Review  - Jesse Lehrer - Goodreads

Yes Means Yes! is a pretty solid collection of essays on consent, rape culture, empowerment, etc. on a variety of different communities. Some of the essays are really great and enthralling, covering ... Read full review

Review: Yes Means Yes!: Visions of Female Sexual Power and A World Without Rape

User Review  - Josh Hornbeck - Goodreads

In continuing to do research for the play I'm writing about faith, pornography, objectification, and rape culture, I just finished reading "Yes Means Yes!: Visions of Female Sexual Power & a World ... Read full review

Contents

Foreword 1
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Introduction 5
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The Conservative Gender Norms That Perpetuate Rape Culture and How Feminists Can Fight Back 13
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2 Toward a Performance Model of Sex 29
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Consent as Sexual Process 43
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4 A Womans Worth 53
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5 How Do You Fuck a Fat Woman? 67
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6 Queering Black Female Heterosexuality 77
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The Lessons Boys Learn and Dont Learn About Sexuality and Why a SexPositive Rape Prevention Paradigm Can Benefit Everyone Involved 193
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17 The NotRape Epidemic 209
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18 Shame Is the First Betrayer 221
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19 Why Nice Guys Finish Last 227
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20 Sex Worth Fighting For 241
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A Personal Story of Love Violence and Strategies for Survival 251
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22 When Pregnancy Is Outlawed Only Outlaws WillBe Pregnant 265
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A Conversation with Three Sex Workers on Sexuality Empowerment and the Industry 273
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Surviving Incestin Real Life 93
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8 A Love Letter from an AntiRape Activist to Her Feminist SexToy Store 107
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Why the Female Sexual Submissive Scares Us and Why She Shouldnt 117
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10 Invasion of Space by a Female 127
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Sexual Violence Against Immigrant Women in the United States 141
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Black Female Lasciviousness and the Question of Consent 151
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How Date Rape Became Gray Rape and Why It Matters 163
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Rape Culture Explicit Verbal Consent and Body Sovereignty 171
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15 An Immodest Proposal 179
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24 The ProcessOriented Virgin 287
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The Myth of Sexual Purity and How It Reinforces Rape Culture 299
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26 Real Sex Education 305
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How I Stopped Worrying and Learned to Love Pleasure and How You Can Too 313
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notes 321
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contents by theme 333
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about the contributors 341
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Jessica Valenti is the author of three previous books, including The Purity Myth: How America's Obsession with Virginity is Hurting Young Women. She is also the founder of Feministing.com, which the Columbia Journalism Review called "head and shoulders above almost any writing on women's issues in mainstream media." Jessica--called one of the top 100 inspiring women in the world by the Guardian--speaks at universities and organizations in the U.S. and abroad about feminism, activism, and media. She's been selected as a 2012-2013 fellow by the Berkman Center for Internet & Society at Harvard University, where she'll research and develop a plan for a national think tank grounded in digital feminism and its communities. She lives with her family in Boston, but remains a New Yorker at heart.

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