Angry Men and the Women Who Love Them: Breaking the Cycle of Physical and Emotional Abuse

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Beacon Hill Press of Kansas City, Jan 1, 1999 - Family & Relationships - 144 pages
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In an explosive book that explores the roots of abusive relationships, Paul Hegstrom shares his personal struggle with anger and how the wounds of his past shaped his future. For the man who batters, the woman who feels trapped, and the pastor, counselor, or friend who desperately wants to help them both, Angry Men and the Women Who Love Them offers straight, biblical answers for those who are willing to make tough decisions and overcome the cycle of violence.

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Breaking the Cycle of Physical and Emotional Abuse

User Review  - Jerra Dooley - Christianbook.com

So many women live with men who are filled with anger that comes out of them in explosive waves of cruel words and physical loss of control. The woman they live with walks around on egg shells hoping ... Read full review

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User Review  - Andrea Bussinger - Goodreads

Interesting take on male partner abuse as stemming from childhood developmental stumbling blocks. As a former BIP leader, my opinion is that this theory works well for some men but caution should be used to not overlook other etiologies of partner abuse, and to encourage accountability. Read full review

Contents

Acknowledgments
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The Wide Range of Domestic Violence
25
Identifying Abuse
43
Copyright

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