Keeping the Love You Find

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Simon and Schuster, Feb 1, 1993 - Family & Relationships - 352 pages
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Your dream of finding a partner is a natural and normal human instinct and your dream is perfectly achievable. Whatever your history, whatever your heartbreak, as a single person you are in an ideal position to learn what you need to know what what you can do to greatly improve your chances for finding, and keeping, love.

With Keeping the Love You Find, renowned relationship therapist and bestselling author Harville Hendrix will help you to:

  • IDENTIFY your Imago -- the fantasy partner that your unconscious mind, which has a hidden agenda of its own, has chosen for you
  • BREAK FREE from those patterns in your parents' marriage that you have unknowingly accepted as your relationship model
  • CREATE hope in place of despair, companionship instead of loneliness
  • DEVELOP communication skills to turn conflict into contact -- and togetherness
  • TRANSFORM every past relationship into a source of positive growth
  • DISCOVER the rewards of real love -- and the little things that make it last

...and more. Filled with wisdom and compassion, Keeping the Love You Find will help get your next relationship off to the best start and keep your love strong for a lifetime.

  

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User Review  - Tom Morrow - Goodreads

I haven't read past page 100. I doubt that I'll continue any further. Dr. H's book comes across as an immediate assault on the single life. It would seem he is personally uncomfortable with the ... Read full review

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User Review  - Sue - Goodreads

Self-help. Only read 1/2. Not that good. Read full review

Contents

WHATS REALLY GOING ON IN YOUR
18
a RELATIONSHIPS?
33
THE HUMAN JOURNEY
35
Part II
49
GETTING
63
BECOMING A SELF
84
INTO THE WORLD
100
LEGACY
115
Part IV
209
Distillation of Childhood Experience How Does
220
THE JOURNEY
227
A Turning Point on the journey Owning
245
BASIC
251
STEPS TO SELF
266
PARADISE REGAINED
292
NOTES
305

Part III
135
LOVES
157
MAKING LOVE
175
BIBLIOGRAPHY
317
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
327
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Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., a clinical pastoral counselor and co-creator of Imago Relationship Therapy, has more than thirty-five years' experience as an educator, public lecturer, and couples' therapist.

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