Miss Manners' Basic Training: The Right Thing to Say

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Crown Publishing Group, 1998 - Reference - 179 pages
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Miss Manners hereby declares that "You look terrific -- did you have a facelift?" is not an acceptable compliment. For this and the other myriad rudeness that nowadays pass for consolation, congratulation and other forms of verbal communication, Miss Manners provides politely pointed comebacks, as well as the gracious and proper thing to say in any situation.

Miss Manners feels compelled to do so because saying the wrong thing -- whether in the name of originality, self-expression, honesty or instant empathy -- has become all too common:

To a Bereaved Person:
"You must realize it's all for the best."

To a Newly Engaged Person:
"Are you sure you know what you're doing?"

To a Pregnant Woman:
"You can still do something about it, you know."

The Right Thing to Say is a refresher course in etiquette as a second language, filled with the practical advice and sly humor that make Miss Manners such "good wicked fun, and helpful too" (Cosmopolitan). Including useful phrases for dealing with life's special occasions and mishaps, The Right Thing to Say explores the subtleties of saying "no," conducting a conversation without causing offense and the art of the apology when you do anyway.

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Review: Miss Manners' Basic Training: The Right Thing to Say

User Review  - Gerilyn Hayes - Goodreads

The conversational, informative tone made the book easy to read. Most of all, Miss Manners aka Mrs. Judith Martin's book is entertaining. I enjoyed reading it, and kept it from the library for 2 ... Read full review

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User Review  - Sharon - Goodreads

This book was hilarious! Judith Martin is witty and clever in her writing. This book was a quick read and was a lot of fun! Read full review

About the author (1998)

Judith Martin is the author of numerous books, including the best-selling Miss Manners Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Behavior. Her thrice-weekly syndicated column appears in more than two hundred North American newspapers. She lives in Washington D.C.

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