books.google.com - InModern Mannerscultural guru P. J. O'Rourke provides the essential accessory for the truly contemporary man or woman-a rulebook for living in a world without rules. Traditionally, good manners were a means of becoming as bland and invisible as everyone else, and thus of avoiding calling attention to...http://books.google.com/books/about/Modern_Manners.html?id=VGGGGm1QYPgC&utm_source=gb-gplus-shareModern Manners