The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate (Google eBook)

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Moody Publishers, Dec 17, 2009 - Family & Relationships - 208 pages
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Marriage should be based on love, right? But does it seem as though you and your spouse are speaking two different languages? #1 New York Times bestselling author Dr. Gary Chapman guides couples in identifying, understanding, and speaking their spouse's primary love language-quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service, or physical touch.

By learning the five love languages, you and your spouse will discover your unique love languages and learn practical steps in truly loving each other. Chapters are categorized by love language for easy reference, and each one ends with simple steps to express a specific language to your spouse and guide your marriage in the right direction. A newly designed love languages assessment will help you understand and strengthen your relationship. You can build a lasting, loving marriage together.

Gary Chapman hosts a nationally syndicated daily radio program called A Love Language Minute that can be heard on more than 150 radio stations as well as the weekly syndicated program Building Relationships with Gary Chapman, which can both be heard on The Five Love Languages is a consistent New York Times bestseller - with over 5 million copies sold and translated into 38 languages.† This book is a sales phenomenon, with each year outselling the prior for 16 years running!

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Review: The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts

User Review  - CaSandra Marie - Goodreads

I really enjoyed this book. It presents the idea that everyone has a primary love language and identifying and speaking your spouse's love language is essential to a happy marriage. I particularly ... Read full review

Review: The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts

User Review  - Kalie - Goodreads

Absolutely amazing book. This book has completely transformed my fiancťs and I's relationship. Now when ever we go out and are around a couple with relationship trouble I am frequently asked if I have ... Read full review

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1 What Happens to Love After the Wedding?
2 Keeping the Love Tank Full
3 Falling in Love
Words of Affirmation
Quality Time
Receiving Gifts
Acts of Service
10 Love Is a Choice
11 Love Makes the Difference
12 Loving the Unlovely
13 A Personal Word
Frequently Asked Questions
The Five Love Languages Profile for Husbands
The Five Love Languages Profile for Wives

Physical Touch
9 Discovering Your Primary Love Language

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About the author (2009)

GARY CHAPMAN, PhD, is the author of the #1 New York Times bestselling The 5 Love Languages. With over 30 years of counseling experience, he has the uncanny ability to hold a mirror up to human behavior, showing readers not just where they go wrong, but also how to grow and move forward. Dr. Chapman holds BA and MA degrees in anthropology from Wheaton College and Wake Forest University, respectively, MRE and PhD degrees from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, and has completed postgraduate work at the University of North Carolina and Duke University. For more information visit his website at

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