A Time to LoveIn this book a mother tells a candid story of agony and anguish experienced as AIDS took her son. Roger's journals disclose his struggles with his sexuality and his feelings of rejection and alienation. The drama shows how he eventually comes to peace with himself, his loved ones, and God. Roger's family upholds him emotionally, physically, and spiritually through phone calls, letters, prayers, and visits from Kansas to California, where Roger lived. His parents, Helen and Marvin Hostetler, sense God's strength and providential intervention as they go through the ordeal of Roger's last years. A core of friends stand by Roger, and a San Francisco church support group shares compassion and love with the Hostetlers, bearing burdens with them. Persons with AIDS are often treated as social outcasts. The author challenges the church to reflect on its ministry to them, to be redemptive, to walk with those in pain, offering care, friendship, trust, and hope. |
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Page 145
... knew he couldn't help it . The Lord prom- ises to give us himself . That is all I need ! I began to sense a real restlessness in Roger . He was receiving many phone calls from San Francisco , and he was missing his friends . One morning ...
... knew he couldn't help it . The Lord prom- ises to give us himself . That is all I need ! I began to sense a real restlessness in Roger . He was receiving many phone calls from San Francisco , and he was missing his friends . One morning ...
Page 148
... knew nothing of his whereabouts . I suspected he might have called his Denver friend and met her in the air- port on his trip home . I knew only her given name , no address or telephone number . We were finally able to contact a friend ...
... knew nothing of his whereabouts . I suspected he might have called his Denver friend and met her in the air- port on his trip home . I knew only her given name , no address or telephone number . We were finally able to contact a friend ...
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... knew that he was in good hands and I could rest much easier . I also knew that Roger was most comfortable with him . He thanked me for the confidence but warned me about the possibility of a call . I knew our calls from Roger were over ...
... knew that he was in good hands and I could rest much easier . I also knew that Roger was most comfortable with him . He thanked me for the confidence but warned me about the possibility of a call . I knew our calls from Roger were over ...
Contents
Acknowledgments and Thanks | 9 |
Authors Preface | 11 |
News from the West | 15 |
Copyright | |
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