Shared Sorrows: A Gypsy Family Remembers the Holocaust

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University Of Hertfordshire Press, Oct 1, 2002 - History - 296 pages
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On the morning after Kristallnacht, Toby Sonnemanís father walked through broken glass to apply for the visa that saved him from the fate of so many during the Third Reich. In examining her own family history, the author discovered the similarities between the fate of the Jews and the Gypsies in the Holocaust, both peoples selected on racial grounds for extermination by the Nazis. She traveled with an American Gypsy survivor to Munich, where she stayed with the formidable Rosa Mettbach. This is the story of Rosa and other members of an extended family who survived the Holocaust. Shared Sorrows tells the story of a Gypsy family against the backdrop of a Jewish one, detailing and examining their shared sufferings under the Nazis. My father brought a spool of thread with him from Germany when he came to America in 1939. And another spool of thread, one in my imagination, unwinds slowly and unpredictably, sometimes fraying or tangling. It's a thin and delicate thread that leads me to the Gypsies, to the family that I meet in Germany, the country of so many tangled memories and emotions. And as I talk to them and I listen, following the threads of their stories backwards in time to the 1930s and 40s and before, their memories start to become mine as well.
  

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The book plays during World War 2 and it is about a gypsy family that lived in Germany and other gypsy people. The narrator of the book is reporter/journalist and asks a couple gypsy people that lived ... Read full review

Contents

Prologue In Human Terms
1
Chronology of Two Families
7
A bit of sweetness
15
A bitter root
20
The family album
38
Before and after
49
can do nothing for you
59
Tfo 5y iw grey
67
Mano the boy who was lost
140
Spiritually broken
148
Apiece of bread
156
the rain one sees no tears
169
Their ways and our ways
177
Homeland
182
Primitive people
192
The question of complicity
204

Stains on the table
78
wo like the German people
84
never was a child
90
Inconsistencies
102
y matter of surviving
114
7? realized
121
cannot talk
132
Run and run
213
No trust nobody no more
218
FriedhofJudenfriedhof
231
Epilogue A spool of thread
247
End notes
260
Bibliography
274
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About the author (2002)

Toby Sonneman, a founding member of the Romani-Jewish Alliance, is the author of numerous articles on the fate of the Gypsies in the Holocaust as well as Fruit Fields in My Blood: Okie Migrants in the West.

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