Take Back Your Marriage: Sticking Together in a World that Pulls Us Apart

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Guilford Press, 2001 - Family & Relationships - 184 pages
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More than half of all marriages currently end in divorce, but most newlyweds are supremely confident about their own future happiness. They vow that they won't make the same mistakes their parents did, or their friends--that this time, love will last forever. From renowned family therapist and educator William J. Doherty, this indispensable book helps couples of any age break free of the pervasive attitudes and assumptions that can chip away at even the happiest marriage today. Readers learn how to stay alert to marital drift and how to restore a relationship worth saving, even when it seems too late. Dr. Doherty illuminates such common commitment eroders as treating marriage like a consumer purchase, confusing desires with needs, becoming overtime parents and part-time spouses, and giving in to unintentional sabotage from family, friends, or helping professionals. He shows instead how couples can take positive steps to nurture their marriage by creating relationship rituals that stand the test of time. The book includes self-tests that pinpoint hidden marital problems (and solutions), as well as examples that illustrate how these commonsense ideas can be applied to the complexities of real life.

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Review: Take Back Your Marriage: Sticking Together in a World That Pulls Us Apart

User Review  - Rachel Meyers - Goodreads

I've just begun this book, but it's fantastic so far. Not that I'm having problems with my marriage, but someone recommended this to me and now I realize how much better I can be! The author is ... Read full review

Review: Take Back Your Marriage: Sticking Together in a World That Pulls Us Apart

User Review  - Amy - Goodreads

Pretty good, possibly not the best marriage book I've ever read, but good food for thought. Biggest nuggets I got out of this one: *Make traditions routine. Things like lunch every Wednesday, or ... Read full review

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William J. Doherty, PhD, is Professor and Director of the Marriage and Family Therapy Program at the University of Minnesota. Past President of the National Council on Family Relations, Dr. Doherty was named one of America's 10 most innovative therapists by the Utne Reader. His numerous books include Take Back Your Kids.

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