Grown-Up Marriage: What We Know, Wish We Had Known, and Still Need to Know About Being Married (Google eBook)
Although marriage is for grown-ups, very few of us are grown up when we marry. Here, the bestselling author of Suddenly Sixty and Necessary Losses presents her life-affirming perspective on the joys, heartaches, difficulties, and possibilities of a grown-up marriage -- and no, that's not an oxymoron!
Featuring interviews with married women and men, the findings of couples therapists, the truths offered by literature and movies, and a bemused exploration of her own marriage, Judith Viorst illuminates the issues couples struggle with from "I do" through "till death do us part." Examining marital rivalry, marital manners, marital sex (extramarital, too), marital fighting and apologies, what kids do for (and to) marriage, and the boredom and bliss of everyday married life, Viorst leaves no marital stone unturned. From the early years when we wonder "Who is this person?" and "What am I doing here?" to the realities of divorce, remarriage, and growing older (and old) together, Viorst offers insights and advice with honesty, humanity, and humor -- all the while recognizing how tough it is to be married and, when it works, how very precious it can be.
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Review: Grown-Up Marriage: What We Know, Wish We Had Known, and Still Need to Know About Being MarriedUser Review - Virlys - Goodreads
Anyone who is married, might one day be married, is considering marriage, or is engaged to be married ought to relate to the stories, problems, joys, frustrations, and realizations of the real life ... Read full review
Review: Grown-Up Marriage: What We Know, Wish We Had Known, and Still Need to Know About Being MarriedUser Review - Rebekah - Goodreads
I'm with the reviewer who thought the title was promising but was disappointed with the book. Of all the fluffy self-help books I waste my time with, this one's the fluffiest. I don't think she says anything, at all. Read full review
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Marriage and the Families 3 47
How Kids Change the Couple 71
Ordinary Everyday Married Life 5 95
Marital Sibling Rivalry 117
Married Sex 137
Making War Making Up Making Do 163