An Uncertain Inheritance: Writers on Caring for Family

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Nell Casey
Harper Collins, Nov 13, 2007 - Family & Relationships - 282 pages
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In this eloquent collection of essays—from the editor of the national bestseller Unholy Ghost: Writers on Depression—contributors reveal their experiences in caring for family through illness and death

Today, thirty million people look after frail family members in their own homes. This number will increase drastically over the next decade—as baby boomers tiptoe toward old age; as soldiers return home from war wounded, mentally and physically; as a growing number of Americans find themselves caught between the needs of elderly parents and young children; as medical advances extend lives and health insurance fails to cover them. This compelling book offers both literary solace and guidance to the people who find themselves witness to—and participants in—the fading lives of their intimates.

Some of the country's most accomplished writers offer frank insights and revelations about this complex relationship. Julia Glass describes the tension between giving care—to her two young sons—and needing care after being diagnosed with breast cancer; Ann Harleman explores her decision to place her husband in an institution; Sam Lipsyte alternates between dark humor and profound understanding in telling the story of his mother's battle with cancer; Ann Hood wishes she'd had more time as a caregiver, to prepare herself for the loss of her daughter; Andrew Solomon examines the humbling experience of returning as an adult to be cared for by his father; cartoonist Stan Mack offers an illustrated piece about the humor and hell of making his way through the medical bureaucracy alongside his partner, Janet; Julia Alvarez writes about the competition between her and her three sisters to be the best daughter as they tend to their ailing parents. An Uncertain Inheritance examines the caregiving relationship from every angle—children caring for parents; parents caring for children; sib-lings, spouses, and close friends, all looking after one another—to reveal the pain, intimacy, and grace that take place in this meaningful connection.

  

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Review: An Uncertain Inheritance: Writers on Caring for Family

User Review  - Crystal - Goodreads

Collection of short stories about being a caregiver-- mother/child, spouse/spouse, child/parent, etc. Some were better than others, but nothing great. Read full review

Review: An Uncertain Inheritance: Writers on Caring for Family

User Review  - Margaret - Goodreads

I liked the variety, ranging from care-givers to those receiving care, from family to friends to others, as well as the variety of styles of writing. Much of the book was painful to read, yet this is the reality of the subject. Perhaps the book tilted a bit much to the most difficult situations. Read full review

Contents

SAM LIPSYTE The Gift
12
ANN HARLEMAN My Other Husband
19
JEROME GROOPMAN Elliott
34
Aging Parents
66
STEPHEN YADZINSKI JUSTINE PICARDIE Called Them Vitamins 77 Ruth
88
ANDREW SOLOMON Notes on Accepting Care
94
ELEANOR COONEY Death in Slow Motion
118
SUSAN LEHMAN Dont Worry Its Not an Emergency
164
AMANDA FORTINI The Vital Role
188
ABIGAIL THOMAS The Day the World Split Open
219
STAN MACK The Elephant in the Room
228
KERREL MCKAY Transformed by a Touch
245
Contributors
271
Acknowledgments
279
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About the author (2007)

The editor of the national bestseller Unholy Ghost, Nell Caseyhas written for Slate, the New York Times, Salon, Elle, and Glamour, among other publications. She lives in Brooklyn, New York, with her husband and son.

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