The Secret Lives of Girls: What Good Girls Really Do -- Sex Play, Aggression, and Their Guilt
From playground games of "chase and kiss" to rough-and-tumble soccer games, from slumber party stripteases to romantic fantasies behind closed doors, author Sharon Lamb coaxes out girls' true stories with uncommon sensitivity and focus. The result of more than 125 fascinating interviews with pre-teens, teenagers, and adult women, "The Secret Lives of Girls" reveals the ways that girls use their minds and bodies for private sexual play, mischief, and hidden aggression.
To truly understand what little girls are made of, Lamb suggests, we must listen not only to what they say to us but also to what they don't say, taking into account their hidden selves and the lives that we adults don't see. Yes, girls are known to be "good," but they manage to act out in decidedly ungirlish ways and, despite many parents' fears, be the better for it. What's most remarkable about Lamb's conclusions is that we needn't join the chorus of voices deploring a "girl-poisoning" culture for damaging our daughters. Instead, Lamb finds reason to celebrate girls' resilience in the face of pressures to conform -- and she does it by listening to them and to the women they have become. "The Secret Lives of Girls" explores such in-depth key issues as:
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Review: The Secret Lives of Girls: What Good Girls Really Do--Sex Play, Aggression, and Their GuiltUser Review - Ayelet Waldman - Goodreads
Did you know the extent of sexual play that goes on in the lives of little girls? I bet you did, but thought you were just...unique. Weird. Odd. Read this and find out how normal it all is. Read full review
Review: The Secret Lives of Girls: What Good Girls Really Do--Sex Play, Aggression, and Their GuiltUser Review - Michelle Cristiani - Goodreads
This book was divided into sexuality and aggression, both of which Lamb clams should not be supressed in girls. I agree, and this book touched me personally. I remember early shame over my sexuality ... Read full review
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