Iris and Her Friends: A Memoir of Memory and Desire

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W. W. Norton & Company, Nov 17, 2000 - Biography & Autobiography - 288 pages
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A timeless work that will bring healing to anyone dealing with the loss of a loved one.

John Bayley began writing Iris and Her Friends, a companion to the New York Times bestseller Elegy for Iris, late at night while his wife, the beloved novelist Iris Murdoch, succumbed to Alzheimer's Disease. As Iris was losing her memory, Bayley was flooded with vivid recollections of his own. In lyrical reverie, Bayley recreates the unforgettable scenes of his youth, from his birth to a civil servant in colonial India to his long romance with Iris and its heartbreaking end. This is the transcendent work of a brilliant man, whose examination of the tragedies and joys of his own life will give readers great healing insight. John Bayley's Iris and Her Friends is nothing less than a classic of true love and sorrow. "Love makes every beautifully formed sentence, every generously shared moment, shimmer and sing."—Donna Seaman, Los Angeles Times Book Review
  

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Review: Iris and Her Friends (The Iris Trilogy #3)

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Review: Iris and Her Friends (The Iris Trilogy #3)

User Review  - Lauren - Goodreads

I am in a funk right now and I think it is because of this book. I love Iris Murdoch's writing, and I looked forward to reading this memoir by her husband. But I don't know what I was thinking. I ... Read full review

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One
3
Two
19
Three
46
Four
59
Five
68
Six
88
Seven
98
Eight
27
Nine
49
Ten
84
Eleven
91
Twelve
211
Thirteen
228
Fourteen
245
Fifteen
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Born in India in 1925, John Bayley was educated at Eton and Oxford. He became a fellow of New College in 1955, where he taught English. In 1956, he married the novelist Iris Murdoch, who was then teaching philosophy at St. Anne's College. Bayley is an eminent literary critic and the author of Iris and Her Friends and Elegy for Iris. He has since remarried. A regular contributor to the New York Review of Books and an active supporter of Alzheimer's International, Bayley still lives and writes in Oxford, England.

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