Talking of Love on the Edge of a PrecipiceTalking About Love on the Edge of a Precipiceis a book filled with hope. All of us suffer from trauma in our lives, whether it be a difficult childhood, the end of a love affair, or a violent experience. Yet rather than be controlled by our pain, it is possible for us to grow in the face of our problems and create a new life for ourselves. In his groundbreaking work on the healing power of resilience, Boris Cyrulnik has created a new way for us to understand ourselves and our pasts. He shows how we are all changed by trauma, but that we can choose either to submit to it as if it were our destiny, or break free and come back to life. The answer lies in making use of our pain and giving it meaning. Whether it occurs during adolescence, meeting a partner or having children ourselves, resilience comes from modifying our personal histories and how we see ourselves inside - literally remaking our life story. By translating trauma into words, we choose to live again. Ultimately, this book is a celebration of the healing, transforming power of love. |
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... modify the negative self - images they acquired in childhood . It can even allow them to cease being delinquents and to commit themselves to a new style of socialization.14 This is much more than a transition . It really is one of ...
... modify the negative self - images they acquired in childhood . It can even allow them to cease being delinquents and to commit themselves to a new style of socialization.14 This is much more than a transition . It really is one of ...
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... modify them . This is what makes resilience possible . Psychoanalysis refers to resilience in a relational convention that we can extend to other domains of life : ' [ ] recalling previously inaccessible episodes so as to allow memories ...
... modify them . This is what makes resilience possible . Psychoanalysis refers to resilience in a relational convention that we can extend to other domains of life : ' [ ] recalling previously inaccessible episodes so as to allow memories ...
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... modify the way others feel about them- selves . The medium for the transmission is attachment : gestures , some of them tiny , facial expressions and narratives act as transmitters and give the emotions their power . 1 ° This has been ...
... modify the way others feel about them- selves . The medium for the transmission is attachment : gestures , some of them tiny , facial expressions and narratives act as transmitters and give the emotions their power . 1 ° This has been ...
Contents
An Innocent Helper | 3 |
The Stories That Are Told Around the Wounded Can Make | 10 |
The Humiliating Omelette | 17 |
Copyright | |
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Talking of Love: How to Overcome Trauma and Remake Your Life Story Boris Cyrulnik No preview available - 2009 |
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