Wedding Song: Memoirs of an Iranian Jewish Woman

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University Press of New England, 2003 - Biography & Autobiography - 205 pages
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Farideh Goldin was born to her fifteen-year-old mother in 1953 and into a Jewish community living in an increasingly hostile Islamic state--prerevolutionary Iran. This memoir recounts Goldin's childhood in a poor Jewish household in Shiraz, a southern Iranian city, and her emigration to the United States in 1975. As she recalls trips to the market and the mikvah, and as she evokes ritual celebrations like weddings, Goldin chronicles her childhood, her extended family, and the lives of the women in her community. Her memoir details her parents' "courtship" (her father selected her mother from a group of adolescent girls), her mother's lonely life as a child-bride, and Goldin's childhood home which was presided over by her paternal grandmother. Goldin's memoir conveys not just the personal trauma of growing up in a family fraught with discord but also the tragic human costs of religious dogmatism. In Goldin's experience, Jewish fundamentalism was intensified by an Islamic context. Although the Muslims were antagonistic to Jews, their views on women's roles and their treatment of women influenced the attitude and practices of some Iranian Jews. In this brave and dispassionate portrayal of a little-known corner of Jewish life, Farideh Goldin confronts profound sadness yet captures the joys of a child's wonder as she savors the scenes and textures and scents of Jewish Iran. Readers share her youthful adventures and dangers, coming to understand how such experiences shaped her choices as a young adult.

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User Review  - Sara - Goodreads

This is a story of growing up in a Jewish-ghetto in Shiraz during the mid 50's in a super traditional Jewish family. Goldin describes a very hostile society against religious minorities in so much ... Read full review

Review: Wedding Song: Memoirs of an Iranian Jewish Woman

User Review  - Amir - Goodreads

This book was just awesome, perhaps more for personal reasons. I was born in the same city that this writer was and her memories did ring a bell, although I was raised in the dominant Islamic culture ... Read full review


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Goldin studied math and English literature at Pahlavi University in Shiraz, Iran, from 1971 to 1975. She transferred to Old Dominion University in Virginia, earning her B.A. in English literature in 1976, an M.A. in Humanities, and her graduate certificate in Women's Studies in 1995. She earned her M.F.A. in Creative Writing in 2002.

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