When Friendship Hurts: How to Deal with Friends Who Betray, Abandon, or Wound You (Google eBook)
"WITH A NEW INTRODUCTION"
"HOW COULD YOU DO THAT TO ME?"
We've all had friendships that have gone bad. Whether it takes the form of a simple yet inexplicable estrangement or a devastating betrayal, a failed friendship can make your life miserable, threaten your success at work or school, and even undermine your romantic relationships.
Finally there is help. In When Friendship Hurts, Jan Yager, recognized internationally as a leading expert on friendship, explores what causes friendships to falter and explains how to mend them -- or end them. In this straightforward, illuminating book filled with dozens of quizzes and real-life examples, Yager covers all the bases, including:
The twenty-one types of negative friends -- a rogues' gallery featuring such familiar types as the Blood-sucker, the Fault-finder, the Promise Breaker, and the Copycat
How to recognize destructive friends as well as how to find ideal ones
The e-mail effect -- how electronic communication has changed friendships for both the better and the worse
The misuse of friendship at work -- how to deal with a co-worker's lies, deceit, or attempts at revenge
How to stop obsessing about a failed friendship
And much more
The first highly prescriptive book to focus on the complexities of friendship, When Friendship Hurts demonstrates how, why, and when to let go of bad friends and how to develop the positive friendships that enrich our lives on every level. For everyone who has ever wondered about friends who betray, hurt, or reject them, this authoritative book provides invaluable insights and advice to resolve the problem once and for all.
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Review: When Friendship Hurts: How to Deal with Friends Who Betray, Abandon, or Wound YouUser Review - Courtney Wells - Goodreads
About a year and a half ago, I moved from New York City, where I'd lived for 10 years, and moved to DC to attend graduate school. I knew it would be hard to be away from my friends, but I never ... Read full review
Review: When Friendship Hurts: How to Deal with Friends Who Betray, Abandon, or Wound YouUser Review - Goodreads
A little simplistic, but some good advice and viewpoints. Presented in a little too much of a self-help "I wanna be Dr Phil" format. And amazingly glosses over some of the more subtle emotions you have towards friends. But still, worth the quick read.