Blue Peninsula: Essential Words for a Life of Loss and Change

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Farrar, Straus and Giroux, Apr 4, 2006 - Self-Help - 240 pages
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"My son's illness is eight years old and has no name. It started when he was fourteen. He is now twenty-two. It is taking away his ability to walk and to reason. It is getting worse, some years more rapidly than others."

These words begin the first section of Blue Peninsula, a narrative of a son's degenerative illness in thirty-three parts focused around poems that have provided companionship and sustenance to the author. When multiple diagnostic avenues delivered no explanation for the worsening disabilities of her older son, Ike, Madge McKeithen "became a poetry addict--collecting, consuming, ripping poems out of magazines, buying slender volumes that would fit in my pocket or pocketbook, stashing them in loose-leaf notebooks, on shelves, stacking them on the floor. In the midst of all this grief, I had fallen in love. With words. Poems, especially. And just in time."

McKeithen draws on a wonderfully wide ranging group of of poets and lyricists--including Emily Dickinson, the Rolling Stones, Paul Celan, Bruce Springsteen, Marie Howe, Walt Whitman, and many others--to illuminate, comfort, and help to express her sorrow. Some chapters are reflections on friendships and family relationships in the context of a chronic and worsening illness. Some consider making peace with what life has dealt, and others value intentionally reworking it.

Not written to suggest easy solace, this powerful work aims to keep company, as would any individual whose loved one is on a course in which the only way out is through.

 

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Contents

Preface
A Coming to Terms
Acquiring Losses
Crying in the Car
Clarity
Looking
Looking Again
Signal Changes
In the Details
Central Park Boathouse
Slanted
Along with a Life
Houses and Hearts
Naming
Grief Work
Holding Patterns

Lines to Cross
To Bleed
Open to It
Sifting Questions
Well Wishers
Vividly Inarticulate
Courage? Yes
Bearing Things
Shards
Making Light
Body
Rocking
Shipwreck
Surprises
Sensory Illness
Shelving Selves
Without the Loneliness
Acknowledgments
Permissions Acknowledgments
Copyright

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About the author (2006)

Madge McKeithen was born in Fayetteville, North Carolina, and attended the College of William and Mary and the Johns Hopkins School of Advanced International Studies. She has been a teacher, and a researcher and editor for a U.S. congressman and the World Bank. She lives in New York City. Blue Peninsula is her first book.

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