Fall in Love, Stay in Love
Dr. Harley's blockbuster book His Needs, Her Needs has helped more than a million couples meet each other's needs and fall in love all over again. But that's only part of what makes a spectacular marriage, according to Harley. To stay in love, couples must protect each other and the love they've created.
Harley fans have already been introduced to the Love Bank, emotional needs, Love Busters, and fair negotiation. So how do these key concepts work together to strengthen marriages? Fall in Love, Stay in Love has the answer--a complete, step-by-step overview that will leave fans saying "aha!" and new readers ready for more from this respected author.
In his new book, Harley promises that if couples are willing to form habits that create love and control instincts that destroy it, they can have the love-filled marriages they've always wanted. Then he sits down with readers to guide them through his tried and proven plan.
With profound insights, probing questions, and practical action steps, the man who has helped save scores of marriages leads readers down the road to a love that lasts a lifetime.
How I Learned to Save Marriages
The Love Bank
Instincts and Habits
Learning to Care for Each Other
His Most Important Emotional Needs
Her Most Important Emotional Needs
Identifying and Meeting Important Emotional
The Policy of Undivided Attention
Identifying and Overcoming Love Busters
How to Negotiate in Marriage
The Three States of Mind in Marriage
The Policy of Joint Agreement
Four Guidelines for Successful Negotiation
How to Resolve Everyday Problems
B Emotional Needs Questionnaire
How to Avoid Love Bank Withdrawals
The Policy of Radical Honesty
Agreement to Meet the Most Important Emotional
G Love Busters Questionnaire
H Agreement to Overcome Love Busters
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