Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples
The bestselling guide to transforming an intimate relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship., with a new foreword and chapter from the author
In "Getting the Love You Want," Dr. Harville Hendrix presents the relationship skills that have already helped hundreds of thousands of couples to replace confrontation and criticism with a healing process of mutual growth and support. This extraordinary practical guide describes the revolutionary technique of Imago Relationship Therapy, which combines a number of disciplines--including the behavioral sciences, depth psychology, cognitive therapy, and Gestalt therapy, among others-- to create a program to resolve conflict and renew communication and passion.
"Getting the Love You Want" describes the three stages of intimate relationships, provides illustrative case studies and gives helpful recommendations to overcome the obstacles in those stages to create a stronger bond between couples. First, he chronicles the stages of most relationships-attraction, romantic love and the power struggle-and suggests ways for partners to identify the conflicts associated with each of them. Then, he explores methods for achieving a "Conscious Marriage," where the early phases of romance are rekindled and confrontation is slowly replaced by growth and support. Finally, Dr. Hendrix incorporates these ideas into a unique therapeutic course, offering a series of proven exercises that lead to insight, resolution and revitalization. Step by step, he describes how to communicate with greater accuracy and sensitivity, how to let go of self-defeating behaviors, and how to focus energy on meeting each partners' needs.
With" Getting the Love You Want" couples in any stage of a relationship can resolve their conflicts and achieve mutual emotional satisfaction.
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Great ResourceUser Review - nelly956 - Overstock.com
I read this book as a resource because Im a therapist who works with couples. HOWEVER I found the information to be extremely useful for me personally. It was easy for me to address couples issues ... Read full review
Excellent book for couplesUser Review - musamisteriosa - Overstock.com
This book was a fun read and it had very insightful information. We both read it. We have been married for 6 years and we have been very happy. However we are encountering the greatest challenge of ... Read full review
The Conscious Marriage
and Your Partner
Defining Your Curriculum
Portrait of Two Marriages
Ten Steps Toward a Conscious Marriage
Your Relationship Vision
The NoExit Decision
The Surprise List
The Fun List