How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

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Penguin, 2007 - Family & Relationships - 249 pages
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The hardest part about dating is understanding the mysterious inner workings of a man?s brain. How can women know what men are really looking for if men don?t tell them?

They can ask Janis.

With over fourteen years of experience as a professional matchmaker, Janis Spindel has a unique insider?s perspective on contemporary dating culture. All her clients are men, and they tell her exactly what they want in a relationship. Janis offers women a step-by-step plan for winning a man?s heart, such as:
? It?s okay to ask a guy for his number, as long as you do it with confidence
? Don?t wear your work clothes on a date, ever! Freshen up before meeting a guy
? Pay him a compliment?he?s human. He?ll love it.

Entertaining and empowering, What Men Really Want is the next best thing to a private appointment with the nation?s premier matchmaker.


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Spindel has assembled this dating guide based on her 13 years of successful professional matchmaking and understanding of what men want in a relationship. Using client quotes, real situations, and ... Read full review

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This is the WORST book ever. Janis convinced me to buy it right before she RIPPED ME OFF for her services. AVOID HER AND THIS DUMB, INSULTING BOOK.


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JANIS SPINDEL, president and founder of Janis Spindel Serious Matchmaking, Inc., has more than 750 marriages to her credit. She has appeared on CBS The Early Show, NBC The Weekend Today Show, 60 Minutes II, and Fox and Friends, and has been featured in the New York Times, the New Yorker, New York Magazine, and the Wall Street Journal.

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