I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality

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Harper Collins, 1989 - Family & Relationships - 207 pages
"AM I LOSING MY MIND?"

People with Borderline Personality Disorderexperience such violent and frightening mood swingsthat they often fear for their sanity. They can beeuphoric one moment, despairing and depressed thenext. There are an estimated 10 million sufferersof BPD living in America today -- each displayingremarkably similar symptoms:

  • a shaky sense of identity
  • sudden violent outbursts
  • oversensitivity to real or imagined rejection
  • brief, turbulent love affairs
  • frequent periods of intense depression
  • eating disorders, drug abuse, and other
    self-destructive tendencies
  • an irrational fear of abandonment and an
    inability to be alone

For years BPD was difficult to describe, diagnose, andtreat. But now, for the first time, Dr. Jerold J. Kreismanand health writer Hal Straus offer much-neededprofessional advice, helping victims and their familiesto understand and cope with this troubling,shockingly widespread affliction.

 

Contents

Chaos and Emptiness
17
Roots of the Borderline Syndrome
42
The Borderline Society
60
Understanding and Healing
83
Communicating with the Borderline
99
Seeking Therapy
118
Coping with the Borderline
151
Appendix
167
Appendix
181
Index
197
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