If You Want Closure in Your Relationship, Start with Your Legs: A Guide to Understanding Men

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Simon and Schuster, Jun 26, 2007 - Family & Relationships - 224 pages
NATIONAL ESSENCE BESTSELLER

Want to find real, committed love? The bodyguard for women's hearts reveals the minds of men in this tough-love guide to relationships.

After decades of preying on women as a pimp and a hustler, Big Boom knows all the games men play. He's now given up his player card, exposing the motivations of men and providing women with down-to-earth advice on how to create a fulfilling, loving relationship.

From sex with the ex to first dates, from the first look to the morning after, Boom leaves nothing out. His straight-talking advice exposes women's weaknesses and is invaluable to any woman determined to avoid common mistakes that lead to heartbreak.

This unique guide will show women not only how to find true love with Mr. Right, but also how to avoid Mr. Never-Gonna-Happen, Mr. Infidelity, and a variety of other Mr. Wrongs.

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One Booms Personal Message
1
Five Games People Play
18
Eight A Man
55
Nine Relationships
69
Eleven My Wives
84
Fourteen Friends
101
Sixteen GOD GIVES US CHOICES
114
Nineteen LOVE
133
TwentyThree SEX
147
TwentySix DRESSING RIGHT
164
Thirty ESTEEM
181
QUESTIONS WOMEN SHOULD ASK MEN
195
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Page 131 - As a rule, man is a fool, When it's hot, he wants it cool; When it's cool, he wants it hot, Always wanting what is not.
Page 150 - Of course a man can feel loved in other ways, but the most powerful way a woman's love can touch a man's soul and open his heart is through great sex.
Page 10 - Without a deeper understanding of this fundamental difference, women commonly underestimate the importance of a man's sexual habits and many times judge him as superficial for wanting that one thing.
Page 80 - The only time a woman should be on her knees is when she prays to the almighty God.
Page x - I'm not telling you what I heard; I'm telling you what I know.
Page 73 - ... do it. It's not what you say, it's how you say it.

About the author (2007)

A celebrity bodyguard for the past fifteen years, Big Boom is happily married and lives in Plano, Texas. Visit Boom at his website: www.bigboombooks.com.

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