Men, Love & Sex: The Complete User's Guide for Women

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Rodale, Sep 5, 2006 - Self-Help - 208 pages
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THIS IS THE BOOK THAT WILL COMPLETELY CHANGE THE WAY YOU THINK ABOUT MEN!

In this funny and fascinating guide for women, thousands of men confess what turns them on, what turns them off, and what turns "for now" into "forever."

What makes a man fall in love? Why do men really cheat? What does he want in the bedroom? What's the one thing that men crave in a relationship more than anything else (besides that)? The surprising and insightful answers to life's biggest relationship questions can be found here in the pages of MEN, LOVE & SEX: The Complete User's Guide for Women. Using an exclusive Harris Interactive poll that surveyed more than 5,000 men and women, Men's Health(r) editor-in-chief David Zinczenko and coauthor Ted Spiker have written the book that explains and decodes the male creature how they act, what they think, and what they want in their relationships.

With shocking and never-before-seen statistics and powerful confessions, the New York Times bestselling authors present a modern survival guide for women into the inner-workings of the male mind, explaining everything from why he clams up during a fight to the moment he knows he's found the one. This indispensable guide will help women understand the men in their lives through every step of courtship first dates, fights, break-ups, make-ups, marriage, and everything else along the way"so that women can break through and see what's happening inside the often bewildering male mind. How? With such features as:

Say This, Not That: Perfect communication strategies for women to get what they want and to get men to open up!

Masculinity Mastered: The surprising truths about men's feelings and how you can figure out exactly where he stands!

The Ultimate Male Decoder: What it means when a man doesn't sleep over, when he gets insanely jealous, when he grunts during conversation, when he buys an appliance for a birthday gift--along with insights into dozens of other male mysteries!

Wondering Woman: Answers to women's most pressing questions about men. Why can't he say he's sorry? Why can't he fight like an adult? Why can't he aim inside the toilet?

Men's brains, feelings and actions can be harder to interpret than abstract art. So let MEN, LOVE & SEX: The Complete User's Guide for Women become your guide to navigating a relationship through all of its stages. Once you know the secrets to the male mind, you'll be able to bridge the communication gaps that divide men and women. You'll be able to strengthen the relationship you have now"or use your new insights to find the perfect man for you. In the end, you'll get better talks, better sex, better fighting, better understanding, better love, better relationships, and a better life.

For the both of you.
 

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Contents

Why do men work so much?
17
What does his silence mean?
55
Whats the difference between flirting
61
Why do guys cheat?
69
Are men as vain as women?
77
Why do men always have to fix things?
83
Why do men fear anger?
89
Do men believe in love at first sight?
95
Why wont he tell me about his day?
149
Acknowledgments xi
xi
What makes a man fall in love? 1
1
Why do guys always need to be in charge? 9
9
Why does our sex life run hot and cold? 17
17
Why dont men talk like women do? 25
25
Whats really bothering my guy? 33
33
Why wont he open up about his feelings? 39
39

Why do men need to be alone?
103
What does he really think about your body?
109
Here the soothing words that will turn any workaholic into
115
What does a guys opening line really mean?
121
How can i get him to focus on foreplay?
127
What really scares a man?
137
How do we know if its over?
143
How can I get him to focus on me? 47
47
What do men really want in bed?
155
What inspires a man to marry? 163
163
What do men really want in love? 169
169
Index
175
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About the author (2006)

DAVID ZINCZENKO, editor-in-chief of Men’s Health magazine, has written op-ed pieces for the New York Times, Los Angeles Times, and USA Today and has made many guest appearances on Good Morning America, the Today show, CNN, and Primetime Live, often talking about relationships. In 2003, People magazine named him one of the "50 Most Eligible Bachelors." He divides his time between Allentown, Pennsylvania, and New York City.

TED SPIKER, an assistant professor of journalism at the University of Florida, is a contributing editor to Men’s Health. His work has appeared in Fortune; O, the Oprah Magazine; InStyle; Sports Illustrated Women; and Adventure Sports. He lives in Gainesville, Florida.

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