Mennonite in a Little Black Dress: A Memoir of Going Home

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Macmillan, Oct 13, 2009 - Biography & Autobiography - 241 pages

A hilarious and moving memoir—in the spirit of Anne Lamott and Nora Ephron—about a woman who returns home to her close-knit Mennonite family after a personal crisis

Not long after Rhoda Janzen turned forty, her world turned upside down. It was bad enough that her brilliant husband of fifteen years left her for Bob, a guy he met on Gay.com, but that same week a car accident left her with serious injuries. What was a gal to do? Rhoda packed her bags and went home. This wasn’t just any home, though. This was a Mennonite home. While Rhoda had long ventured out on her own spiritual path, the conservative community welcomed her back with open arms and offbeat advice. (Rhoda’s good-natured mother suggested she date her first cousin—he owned a tractor, see.) It is in this safe place that Rhoda can come to terms with her failed marriage; her desire, as a young woman, to leave her sheltered world behind; and the choices that both freed and entrapped her.

Written with wry humor and huge personality—and tackling faith, love, family, and aging—Mennonite in a Little Black Dress is an immensely moving memoir of healing, certain to touch anyone who has ever had to look homeward in order to move ahead.

 

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Contents

The Bridegroom Cousin
1
Touch My Tooth
24
Fear of Mosquitoes
42
Wounding Words
62
A Lingering Finish
79
What the Soldier Made
104
The Big Job
118
Rippling Water
129
Wild Thing
146
The Trump Shall Sound
159
And Thats Okay
177
The Raisin Bombshell
197
The Therapeutic Value of Lavender
207
A Mennonite History Primer
225
Acknowledgments
243
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Rhoda Janzen holds a PhD from the University of California, Los Angeles, where she was the University of California Poet Laureate in 1994 and 1997. She is the author of Babel's Stair, a collection of poems, and her poems have also appeared in Poetry, The Yale Review, The Gettysburg Review, and The Southern Review. She teaches English and creative writing at Hope College in Holland, Michigan.

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