Parenting the Millennial Generation: Guiding Our Children Born Between 1982 and 2000

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Greenwood Publishing Group, 2005 - Family & Relationships - 161 pages

They have strong values--faith, family, tolerance, intelligence, and altruism among them. But, contrary to what one might guess, these people are not America's sage elders. This is the Millennial Generation. Born between 1982 and 2000, the oldest among them today are entering their 20s or in their teen years. They aim to rebel against society by cleaning it up, returning to old-fashioned values and relationships. Author Verhaagen describes why, nonetheless, parents are feeling more anxious and frazzled than ever before, even as they are faced with the task of raising what some predict will be our next hero generation. Verhaagen explains how research shows adults can help keep these young people on a positive path, stoke their ideals, and help them be resilient when the inevitable mistakes and obstacles arise.

The Baby Boomers and older Gen Xers are parenting this new crew, aiming to ground them and instill great hope for the future. But Millennials face challenges greater than any generation faced before them. Many spend all or part of their childhood without a father in the home. Technology, including the Internet, is exposing them to adult material at increasingly young ages. They are subject to violent images that are more common than ever before in movies, television, and games. So parents still need to provide guidance. Verhaagen aims to help parents with research and advice, including how to teach determination, problem-solving, emotional smarts, and resilience. His text includes vignettes and his personal experience as a psychotherapist/father.

 

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Contents

Who Is This Millennial Generation?
1
A Whole New World
11
What Me Worry?
19
Ten Traits of Good Parents
27
Kids with a Hope and a Future
43
Risk Factors
51
Introduction to Protective Factors
63
Emotional Protective Factors
67
Academic Protective Factors
97
Personality Protective Factors
111
Social Protective Factors
125
Family Protective Factors
135
My Last Gasp
145
References and Further Reading
147
Index
159
Copyright

Cognitive Protective Factors
81

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About the author (2005)

Dave Verhaagen is a licensed psychologist and a managing partner with Southeast Psychological Services. He has served as the clinical director for three mental health agencies that serve children, adolescents, and their families. He is a nationally recognized speaker and the author of five books.

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