The Dating Black Book

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Lulu.com, 2007 - Self-Help - 470 pages
Carlos Xuma is about to rip open and expose all the myths about attracting beautiful women into your life... In this groundbreaking manual, The Dating Black Book, you're going to learn about women, attraction, and relationships like never before. Carlos draws on years of experience in Eastern philosophy, psychology, Martial Arts, sales, and plain old common sense to explain the mystifying and confusing world of dating and relationships. Inside, you'll find tips, secrets, techniques, principles, and advice that will become your arsenal in the harrowing world of today's single man. You'll learn the attraction strategies that women have known and used for thousands of years, and finally understand the true rules of dating success. Also included are Carlos' exclusive versions of "Transitions: Stepping Stones to Success" and "Dating Q&A."
 

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Contents

The Scorpion and the Frog
9
Introduction
10
Getting Started Understanding Relationships
20
Its All Sales
21
THE PRINCIPLE OF TRUTH
22
The Vicious Cycle of Male Sex Desire
23
The Comfort Factor and the Novelty Syndrome
25
The Big Trap
26
Female Behavior
228
Words and Actions
229
Drama and Meaning
230
Poisonous Women
233
Danger Signs
240
Women at 30
241
The Program Woman
242
The HighMaintenance Woman
244

What is your Goal?
28
Shades of Gray Not BlackandWhite
29
The Myth of Game Playing
30
Sexual Power
34
How is this material organized?
35
Key To The Symbols
37
Get Your Game Together
39
Behaviors That Reduce Attraction
43
The Three SsThe Key to Your Inner Game
55
Trust
66
Resistance
67
Supplemental Traits
68
Create a Code for Yourself and a Mission
75
The Confidence Treadmill
76
Just say No Men
80
Delayed Gratification Go SLOW
82
Role Models
83
DOW Date Other Women
86
Send Mixed Signals
90
External Game
92
2 Your Car
101
3 Your Home
103
Detail Orientation
105
Chivalry
107
Initiative
108
ABF Always Be Flirting
109
The Dating Continuum
113
Planning and execution
114
The Woman You Want
115
The Three Stages of the Continuum
118
MEET
120
MATE
145
MOVE ON
200
How And When To Use Your Touch
205
First of all the Bad
207
Now the good
209
Other Areas
212
Tickle Kino
213
NLP Anchoring Seduction techniques Accelerators
215
Basic Psychological Principles
217
Scarcity and Appreciation
219
Female Attraction
222
Psychological Posture
223
Selfinterest
225
Addiction
226
Control Principle
227
Profile of a Good Woman The Four Essential Qualities
246
MaleFemale Communications
248
Questions
251
Arguments
253
Use humor as a calming tactic
258
What Women Really Want
261
Women Want Sex
263
Vulnerability Honesty Risk Emotional Disclosure
264
Tests
266
Give HER the Test
272
Investment Mechanism
276
Your Parents
277
Dating Dysfunction
278
Dont Answer A Womans Questions
280
Overreacting More About Why Mommy Isnt Mad
283
Boundaries
286
Jealousy
287
Contention Principle
288
SEX
291
Communication
292
Skills
296
The Extreme Female Sex Types
303
Sexual Weirdness
306
Closing
309
APPENDICES
312
Top Nine Signs Youre Ignoring the Principle of Truth
317
What She Says What She Really Means
322
Cocky Things to Say
325
Places to Meet Women
327
Body Language
329
Stepping Stones To Success
334
Introduction
336
What are Transitions?
338
The Dance
340
The Slut Complex
341
The Stepping Stones
343
Dating QA
378
Validation
384
Pain Management
399
The Point System
403
Always Advance Your Assault
430
Authenticity
451
Dont Ignore Reality It Has Teeth
455
Keep her off balance
460
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