The Happiness Project: Or, Why I Spent a Year Trying to Sing in the Morning, Clean My Closets, Fight Right, Read Aristotle, and Generally Have More Fun

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Harper Collins, Jun 26, 2012 - Biography & Autobiography - 352 pages
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What if you could change your life--without changing your life? Gretchen had a good marriage, two healthy daughters, and work she loved--but one day, stuck on a city bus, she realized that time was flashing by, and she wasn’t thinking enough about the things that really mattered. “I should have a happiness project,” she decided. She spent the next year test-driving the wisdom of the ages, current scientific studies, and lessons from popular culture about how to be happier.

Each month, she pursued a different set of resolutions: go to sleep earlier, quit nagging, forget about results, or take time to be silly. Bit by bit, she began to appreciate and amplify the happiness that already existed in her life. Written with humour and insight, Gretchen’s story will inspire you to start your own happiness project.

Now in a beautiful, expanded edition, Gretchen offers a wealth of new material including happiness paradoxes and practical tips on many daily matters: being a more light-hearted parent, sticking to a fitness routine, getting your sweetheart to do chores without nagging, coping when you forget someone’s name and more.

 

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There was a lot of good stuff in the book, and the writing was very casual and easy to read. There were some small annoyances (e.g. waaaaaay too many pages were covered with paragraph-long quotes from ... Read full review

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Been wanting to take a look at this book, but will not review it, as I skimmed many parts! Seems to have some good tangible advice and motivation tips to find ways to be happier. Would have gotten a ... Read full review

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Contents

BUY NEEDFUL THINGS
SPEND OUT
GIVE SOMETHING UP
8 AUGUST Contemplate the HeavensETERNITY
READ MEMOIRS OF CATASTROPHE
KEEP A GRATITUDE NOTEBOOK
IMITATE A SPIRITUAL MASTER
9 SEPTEMBER Pursue a PassionBOOKS

2 FEBRUARY Remember LoveMARRIAGE
QUIT NAGGING
DONT EXPECT PRAISE OR APPRECIATION
FIGHT RIGHT
NO DUMPING
GIVE PROOFS OF LOVE
3 MARCH Aim HigherWORK
LAUNCH A BLOG
ENJOY THE FUN OF FAILURE
ASK FOR HELP
WORK SMART
ENJOY NOW
4 APRIL Lighten UpPARENTHOOD
SING IN THE MORNING
ACKNOWLEDGE THE REALITY OF PEOPLES FEELINGS
BE A TREASURE HOUSE OF HAPPY MEMORIES
TAKE TIME FOR PROJECTS
5 MAY Be Serious About PlayLEISURE
FIND MORE FUN
TAKE TIME TO BE SILLY
GO OFF THE PATH
START A COLLECTION
6 JUNE Make Time for FriendsFRIENDSHIP
REMEMBER BIRTHDAYS
BE GENEROUS
SHOW UP
DONT GOSSIP
MAKE THREE NEW FRIENDS
7 JULY Buy Some HappinessMONEY
INDULGE IN A MODEST SPLURGE
WRITE A NOVEL
MAKE TIME
FORGET ABOUT RESULTS
MASTER A NEW TECHNOLOGY
10 OCTOBER Pay AttentionMINDFULNESS
MEDITATE ON KOANS
EXAMINE TRUE RULES
STIMULATE THE MIND IN NEW WAYS
KEEP A FOOD DIARY
11 NOVEMBER Keep a Contented HeartATTITUDE
LAUGH OUT LOUD
USE GOOD MANNERS
GIVE POSITIVE REVIEWS
FIND AN AREA OF REFUGE
12 DECEMBER Boot Camp PerfectHAPPINESS
AFTERWORD
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
SUGGESTIONS FOR FURTHER READING
YOUR HAPPINESS PROJECT
THE HAPPINESS PROJECT MANIFESTO
ARE YOU DRIFTING?
ARE YOU AN OVERBUYER OR AN UNDERBUYER?
Happiness Tips
TEN QUESTIONS FOR YOUR READING GROUP
TWELVE HAPPINESS PARADOXES TO CONTEMPLATE AS YOU THINK ABOUT YOUR HAPPINESS PROJECT
About the Author
PRAISE FORTHE HAPPINESS PROJECT
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About the Publisher
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I'm the author of the New York Times bestsellers "The Happiness Project," “Happier at Home” and “Better Than Before.” I write about my experiences as I test-drive the wisdom of the ages, current scientific studies, and lessons from popular culture about happiness, habits, and human nature. My next book will hit the shelves in summer 2017: “The Four Tendencies: The Surprising Truth about the Four Hidden Personality Types That Drive Everything We Do.”Find out your Tendency—are you an Upholder, Questioner, Obliger, or Rebel?—when you take the free quiz at GretchenRubin.com.Subscribe to my award-winning weekly podcast “Happier with Gretchen Rubin” (more than 1 million downloads each month) and hear my sister and I discuss strategies and tips for how to make your daily life happier. I also created an app to help people harness the power of the Four Tendencies. Learn more at BetterApp.us or search the app store for “Better Gretchen Rubin.”My previous books include a bestselling biography of Winston Churchill, "Forty Ways to Look at Winston Churchill,” and one of John Kennedy, “Forty Ways to Look at JFK.” My first book, “Power Money Fame S..: A User's Guide,” is social criticism in the guise of a user's manual. I wrote “Profane Waste” in collaboration with artist Dana Hoey. I've also written three dreadful novels that are safely locked away in a drawer. Before turning to writing, I had a career in law. A graduate of Yale and Yale Law School, I clerked for Justice Sandra Day O'Connor and was editor-in-chief of the Yale Law Journal. I live in New York City with my husband and two daughters.

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