The Second Family: Dealing with Peer Power, Pop Culture, the Wall of Silence -- and Other Challenges of Raising Today's Teens
If you have a teen or pre-teen, you recognize the phenomenon already-perhaps without even knowing it has a name. "The second family," as uncompromisingly described by renowned therapist Dr. Ron Taffel is the immense collective power of the peer group and pop culture-a force so pervasive, it threatens to, and often succeeds in, overwhelming the first family of adults at home and in school. Derived from thousands of interviews with kids and adults, The Second Family uses real-life, sometimes graphic examples to bare the truth about the world of adolescence today and to illuminate the new set of rules by which kids operate.
The second family can be scary to adults. While many parents bury their heads, insisting "not my child," Taffel reveals that even "good" children:
Yet there are healthy aspects to the second family that often go unrecognized:
It is impossible to understand today's teens or preteens without understanding the Second Family. Taffel opens a window into a closed world of frightening dangers and equally uplifting possibilities.
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THE SECOND FAMILY: How Adolescent Power Is Challenging the American FamilyUser Review - Jane Doe - Kirkus
An unnerving look at teen and preteen behavior, with some advice on what puzzled parents can do about it.Assisted by his frequent coauthor Blau (Nurturing Good Children Now, not reviewed), Taffel ... Read full review
The second family: how adolescent power is challenging the American familyUser Review - Not Available - Book Verdict
Twenty-five years as a counselor did not prepare Taffel (Nurturing Good Children Now) to deal with this country's latest generation of teenagers. In this eye-opening work, he tracks adolescents ... Read full review
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