The Only Girl in the Car: A Memoir
The Only Girl in the Car
Bookworm and dreamer, Kathy was a young girl with a tender heart, an adventurer’s spirit, and a child’s terrible confusion about her proper place in the world. As the oldest daughter in a family of six children, she seemed trapped in her role as Big Sister and Mommy’s Helper. Then, one day, teetering on the brink of adolescence, hormones surging, she heard someone call her “cheesecake,” and suddenly saw her path.
“Cheesecake, jailbait, sex kitten”--the very words seemed to be “doors opening” to a splendid new self. But from the moment she decides to lose her virginity and reels in her prey, a “full-grown man,” fourteen-year-old Kathy is headed for trouble. One cold, raw March night some months later, parked in a car with four boys on the outskirts of her small suburban town, she finds it.
Though she could never have foreseen the outcome of that night, the “boys in the car could just as well have been Gypsies foretelling my future,” she writes. Girls who break the rules in small towns like the one she lived in are expected to pay a very high price for their transgressions--and she did.
And yet...this young girl, as scrappy a protagonist as any in our literature, manages to transform her fate. The story of how she came to be in that car, and how she stepped out of it forever altered, to be sure, yet not forever damaged, is the theme of this extraordinary coming-of-age tale.
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THE ONLY GIRL IN THE CAR: A MemoirUser Review - Kirkus
A singular story of a girl who, when she discovered boys in the spring of her 14th year, set her sights on having sex with as many as possible.Dobie was the well-brought-up oldest of six children in a ... Read full review
The only girl in the car: a memoirUser Review - Not Available - Book Verdict
In this candid memoir, Dobie, a freelance writer whose work has appeared in the Village Voice, Vibe, Salon, and other magazines, recounts her coming of age in the 1960s and the high price she paid for ... Read full review