Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship

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Penguin, Jul 1, 1997 - Psychology - 304 pages
There are many books that promise to help you fix a bad relationship. This groundbreaking bestseller is the first one to help you choose whether you should even try—or if you need to go.

Psychotherapist Mira Kirshenbaum draws on years of research and her work with real-life couples to help you make the right decision. She shows you how to diagnose your unique situation with self-analysis and questions like these, which get to the very heart of your problems:

• What sins are forgivable and which ones are unpardonable?
• Is your partner questioning your opinions to the point where you doubt yourself?
• What is your sex life really like, and how important is it?
• Is there real love left between you, and how does it stack up against all that you find unlovable?

Mira Kirshenbaum provides expert guidelines that are the key to making all your choices, concrete steps that you can implement right now, and the ultimate way to determine your personal bottom line—what you need to be happy. This remarkably insightful and probing guide offers advice that lets you see the truth about your relationship—and with wisdom and compassion, it helps you act with the confidence of knowing that whether you decide to go or stay, you are doing the very best thing.
 

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User Review  - engpunk77 - LibraryThing

I read this about 10 years ago when I was with someone other than my husband. I remember that it was not worth the time spent reading it--not very helpful. Read full review

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User Review  - Raleigh - Borders

This is a good practical guide for women who are doubtful about their marriages. It can not clear your doubts for you, but it does provide specific questions for you to reflected on so you can decide whether to leave or stay in your marriage. Read full review

Contents

Part THE PROBLEM
Is You Is or Is You Aint My Baby?
Dancing in the Dark
Part THE SOLUTION
Enough Is Enough
Its Too Late Baby
Lets Do It Lets Fall in Love
Youve Got a Hold on
All the Things You
Lets Call the Whole Thing
You Say Tomayto Say Tomahto Chapter 13 If Ever Should Leave You Chapter 14 RESPECT
Whos Sorry NOW?
Cant Get No Satisfaction
Love To Love You Baby
Ive Got You Under My Skin
Next Steps

Talk to
What Is This Thing Called Love?
It Dont Mean a Thing If It Aint Got That Swing

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About the author (1997)

Mira Kirshenbaum is an individual and family psychotherapist in private practice and the clinical director of the Chestnut Hill Institute in Massachusetts. She is the author of four books, including the phenomenally successful Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay, and has appeared on many national television shows, including The Today Show, Maury Povich, Geraldo, Sally Jessy Raphael, and an ABC News special with John Stossel. She is married, has two grown children, and lives in Boston, Massachusetts.

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