The Mother Dance

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HarperCollins, Mar 17, 2009 - Psychology - 336 pages
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From the celebrated author of The Dance of Anger comes an extraordinary book about mothering and how it transforms us -- and all our relationships -- inside and out. Written from her dual perspective as a psychologist and a mother, Lerner brings us deeply personal tales that run the gamut from the hilarious to the heart-wrenching. From birth or adoption to the empty nest, The Mother Dance teaches the basic lessons of motherhood: that we are not in control of what happens to our children, that most of what we worry about doesn't happen, and that our children will love us with all our imperfections if we can do the same for them. Here is a gloriously witty and moving book about what it means to dance the mother dance.

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Review: The Mother Dance: How Children Change Your Life

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Interesting and thought-provoking insights into all the stages of motherhood. I enjoyed listening to this on tape; it gave me a lot to think about at my stage in life--children leaving the nest, the ... Read full review

Review: The Mother Dance: How Children Change Your Life

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I could deeply connect with the book; I'm planning to reread and would love to keep with myself till the last empty nest stage of my life. Read full review

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Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., is one of our nation’s most loved and respected relationship experts. Renowned for her work on the psychology of women and family relationships, she served as a staff psychologist at the Menninger Clinic for more than two decades. A distinguished lecturer, workshop leader, and psychotherapist, she is the author of The Dance of Anger and other bestselling books. She is also, with her sister, an award-winning children's book writer. She and her husband are therapists in Lawrence, Kansas, and have two sons.

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