How to Get Your Lover Back: Successful Strategies for Starting Over (& Making It Better Than It Was Before)If your lover has left you... If your relationship is on the edge, and you feel fragile and out of control... If you regret walking out... If you're not sure you want your lover back, but you need to understand what happened... You do have a second chance--if you know what has to come first. Falling in and out of love is a natural process that can be understood and mastered. Love properly understood can be love regained and kept alive for a lifetime. This step-by-step approach developed by psychiatrist Blase Harris works. It has worked for the people in this book. And now it can work for you. Dr. Harris's practical guide shows you how to avoid the common mistakes ex-lovers make, love 100 percent, and get your lover back! |
Contents
| 3 | |
Loving 100 Percent to Get Your Lover | 19 |
PREPARING FOR CONTACT | 37 |
Holding Emotions at Bay | 62 |
Lonely Times | 77 |
GETTING BACK TOGETHER | 93 |
How to Get Back in Touch | 116 |
Creating Pleasant Moments | 136 |
LOVE IN THE REAL WORLD | 149 |
Loving Impaired Lovers and | 171 |
Lovers Reunion as Mutual Victory | 194 |
Summary and Your Prescriptions | 208 |
Recommended Additional Reading | 214 |
Other editions - View all
How to Get Your Lover Back: Successful Strategies for Starting Over ... Blase Harris Limited preview - 1989 |
How to Get Your Lover Back: Successful Strategies for Starting Over ... Blase Harris No preview available - 1989 |
How to Get Your Lover Back: Successful Strategies for Starting Over ... Blase Harris No preview available - 2010 |
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