My Losing Season

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Nan A. Talese/Doubleday, 2002 - Biography & Autobiography - 402 pages
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“I was born to be a point guard, but not a very good one. . . .There was a time in my life when I walked through the world known to myself and others as an athlete. It was part of my own definition of who I was and certainly the part I most respected. When I was a young man, I was well-built and agile and ready for the rough and tumble of games, and athletics provided the single outlet for a repressed and preternaturally shy boy to express himself in public....I lost myself in the beauty of sport and made my family proud while passing through the silent eye of the storm that was my childhood.”

So begins Pat Conroy’s journey back to 1967 and his startling realization “that this season had been seminal and easily the most consequential of my life.” The place is the Citadel in Charleston, South Carolina, that now famous military college, and in memory Conroy gathers around him his team to relive their few triumphs and humiliating defeats. In a narrative that moves seamlessly between the action of the season and flashbacks into his childhood, we see the author’s love of basketball and how crucial the role of athlete is to all these young men who are struggling to find their own identity and their place in the world.

In fast-paced exhilarating games, readers will laugh in delight and cry in disappointment. But as the story continues, we gradually see the self-professed “mediocre” athlete merge into the point guard whose spirit drives the team. He rallies them to play their best while closing off the shouts of “Don’t shoot, Conroy” that come from the coach on the sidelines. For Coach Mel Thompson is to Conroy the undermining presence that his father had been throughout his childhood. And in these pages finally, heartbreakingly, we learn the truth about the Great Santini.

In My Losing Season Pat Conroy has written an American classic about young men and the bonds they form, about losing and the lessons it imparts, about finding one’s voice and one’s self in the midst of defeat. And in his trademark language, we see the young Conroy walk from his life as an athlete to the writer the world knows him to be.

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I love Pat Conroy's writing style. - Goodreads
Pat Conroy reads like a frustrated sports writer.. - Goodreads
A great insight into who Conroy is and what shaped him. - Goodreads
Pat Conroy's writing is so readable to me. - Goodreads
Pat Conroy is an excellent writer. - Goodreads
He also talked about being a writer. - Goodreads
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This is the only Conroy book I have read. It seemed like he wrote his chapters as separate memories and placed them in chronological order for the reader's sake. It seemed that he "found himself" or "lost himself" in each game for the first time. His writing can be a bit awkward and overly sentimental for the simple game of basketball.
Three chapters can stand on their own as pieces of literature. I recommend "Plebe Year" for its unapologetic exposure of The Citadel's freshman initiation year. I was disgusted and confused yet happy I read it. I immediately sent an e-mail to an alumnus I knew. He said it was an accurate depiction.
"Annie Kate" was a touching story about a strange girl he loved and lost.
"New Game" relates the losing season to his life as a victim of abuse, and it also discusses the implications of graduating into the Vietnam War.
Conroy is not the most efficient of writers, but he does focus on the absolute truth no matter how much it hurts.

Review: My Losing Season: A Memoir

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What a story!! Beautifully written story of how Pat Conroy's life was shaped; a brutal childhood balanced by a deep love of his chosen sport. Self deprecating, insightful, poignant and alarming all at the same time. Read full review


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About the author (2002)

Pat Conroy is the bestselling author of The Water is Wide, The Great Santini, The Lords of Discipline, The Prince of Tides, and Beach Music. He lives in Fripp Island, South Carolina.

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