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Dutton, 1987 - Fiction - 436 pages
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An epic novel of an American family in the 1950s proves the tender division between what is permissible and what is taboo, between ordinary life and the secret places of the heart.

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The only thing I did enjoy was the usual Oates-prose. - Goodreads
At first I was uneasy about the writing style of this. - Goodreads
An interesting Lolita-like plot to it. - Goodreads
Three star rating for the prose only. - Goodreads
There isn't much of a plot--it's more - Goodreads

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User Review  - Diann Cassens - Goodreads

I don't know why I finished this book. I'm not afraid to give up on a book. Frankly, there are too many good books waiting to be read, so why waste time on a bad one? I read this one to alternate with ... Read full review

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User Review  - Margot Note - Goodreads

When asked what this book was about, I jokingly said, "It's like Raging Bull, but with incest," and I think that's a good description of it. Read full review

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About the author (1987)

Joyce Carol Oates was born in 1938 in Upstate, New York. She attended Syracuse University and graduated as Valedictorian. She then attended University of Wisconsin where she earned an M. A. By the time she was 47 years old, she had published at least that many separate books, including 16 full-length novels and more than a dozen collections of short stories. Some of her works were done under the pseudonym Rosamund Smith. She has also written numerous poems collected in several volumes, at least three plays, many critical essays, and articles and reviews on various subjects while fulfilling her obligations as a professor of English at the University of Windsor, where with her husband Raymond Smith she edited the Ontario Review, which the couple has continued since moving to Princeton in 1978. She has earned a reputation as indubitably one of our most prolific writers and very likely one of our best. Her fiction alone demonstrates considerable variety, ranging from direct naturalism to complex experiments in form. However, what chiefly makes her work her own is a quality of psychological realism, an uncanny ability to bring to the surface an underlying sense of foreboding or a threat of violence that seems to lurk just around the corner from the everyday domestic lives she depicts so realistically. Her first six novels, including Them (1969), which won the National Book Award, express these qualities in varying ways. she is also the recipient of an NEA grant, a Guggenheim fellowship, the PEN/Malamud Lifetime Achievement Award, and the F. Scott Fitzgerald Award for Lifetime Achievement in American Literature. Her title Give Me Your Heart made the New York Times Best seller list for 2011.