Choson and Kallah During Their Engagement

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Feldheim Publishers, 2001 - Betrothal - 281 pages
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Amidst the whirlwind of dating, the excitement of engagement, and the anticipation of wedding preparations, unfortunately, halachah often falls by the wayside. However, never are the laws of tznius, yichud, negiah, and proper behavior between the genders, more crucial than during this time. For if the couple is careful in these matters, their entire marriage will be infused with holiness and purity. This comprehensive work discusses all the practical applications of the halachos, in a clear, sensitive way. From the distinguished author of 'Modesty: An Adornment for Life.'
 

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Contents

INTRODUCTION
23
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
46
KEEPING A DISTANCE FROM ARAYOS
53
MEETING BEFORE THE ENGAGEMENT
61
MEETING AFTER THE ENGAGEMENT CONFLICTING OPINIONS
65
OPINIONS OF GEDOLEI YISROEL ON FREQUENCY OF MEETINGS
71
GADOL OF CENTURIES AGO DENOUNCES MEETING FREQUENTLY
82
THE ASSUMED ADVANTAGES OF MEETING FREQUENTLY
88
INDULGENCE BEFORE CHASUNA DEPRECIATES LIFE AFTER IT
127
KALLAH SHOULD DRESS APPEALINGLY NOT ENTICINGLY
131
CHOSON AND KALLAH DISCUSSING APPROPRIATE MATTERS
135
DAMAGE CAUSED BY KALLOS DISCUSSING THEIR CHASANIM
145
CHOSON AND KALLAH SENDING PRESENTS TO ONE ANOTHER 1 74
188
IF THEY MEET A SHORT ENGAGEMENT IS RECOMMENDED 1 97
203
A CHOSON SHOULD SEEK GUIDANCE
211
SPECIAL PREPARATIONS FOR CHASUNA BY THE CHOSON
217

FAMILIARITY BREEDS CONTEMPT
96
GREATER DANGER OF DISHARMONY
101
CALLINGUP DURING THE ENGAGEMENT PERIOD
105
WRITING LETTERS DURING THE ENGAGEMENT PERIOD
109
OTHER FORMS OF CONTACT DURING ENGAGEMENT PERIOD
119
SPECIAL PREPARATIONS FOR CHASUNA BY THE KALLAH
224
LIFE AFTER CHASUNA DEPENDS ON HOW ONE is PREPARED
237
nnsn
245
INDEX
253
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