Don't Let Your Emotions Run Your Life: How Dialectical Behavior Therapy Can Put You in Control

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New Harbinger Publications, 2003 - Health & Fitness - 204 pages
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There's a wide spectrum of emotional sensitivity, and it varies from one person to another. Some people oscillate between over-control and over-expression. Others stuff or hide their emotions for months before they finally blow their stack and ?stand up for them selves” through overly aggressive behaviors.

People diagnosed with borderline personality disorder (BPD) for example, are are often emotionally sensitive, and may have problems with emotion dysregulation, but they aren't the only ones who have trouble with managing emotions?we all do. There have probably been times in each of our lives when we can remember not being in our ?right mind.”

When we are regularly undone by our emotions, we become victims of damaged relationships, trapped circumstances, self-sabotage, and illness. Don't Let Your Emotions Run Your Life offers help to all of us who want to gain the upper hand on our feelings and our lives. Even high reactors, people disposed to experiencing strong, even overwhelming emotions on a regular basis, will find its strategies easy to use and effective at managing frequent emotional flare-ups.

This book develops proven dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) techniques into worksheets, exercises, and assessments that show you how to pay attention to emotions when they arise, assess blocks to controlling them, and overcome them to eliminate overpowering feelings. Learn what emotional triggers exist in your environment and become less judgmental about yourself when you do experience a surge. Avoid or reduce the distress that strong emotions cause you. This workbook teaches you to reduce the impact of painful feelings and increase the effects of positive ones so that you can tolerate life's ongoing stresses and achieve a sense of calm coexistence with your emotions.

 

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User Review  - IDME - Borders

This has been very, very helpfull to me. I don't allways have the patience to do the exercises,but the exercises I did do helped me understand what I felt and what I have caried with me from my ... Read full review

Dont let your emotions run your life

User Review  - sasha94 - Overstock.com

this book has many good points and also has practice sheets to help those who want to make some changes in their lives.I would highly recommend it. Read full review

Contents

Chapter 2
15
Chapter 3
19
Part IINaming and Describing Your Emotions
26
Chapter 5
42
Chapter 6
60
Chapter 7
74
Chapter 8
85
PART IIIReducing Blocks to Emotion Regulation
92
Chapter 10
104
Chapter 11
119
Part IVLeading an Emotionally Skillful Life
132
Chapter 13
150
Chapter 14
162
Appendix
184
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Scott Spradlin, MA, specializes in dialectical behavior therapy (DBT.) He is the founding editor of the DBT Bulletin .

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