16 Ways to Love Your Lover: Understanding the 16 Personality Types So You Can Create a Love that Lasts Forever

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Delacorte Press, Jan 1, 1994 - Psychology - 270 pages
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The co-authors of Type Talk apply their "TYPEWATCHING" techniques to interpersonal relationships, offering charts, exercises, and lighthearted anecdotes to help readers "find" themselves and build relationships that last. Tour.

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User Review  - Edward Ryan - Goodreads

I have lent this book many times, and have always made sure I've gotten it back. It really helped me understand that things your partner isn't wrong, it's just different. Only available in hardcopy. Read full review

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User Review  - Lauren Read - Goodreads

Myers-Briggs applied to relationships: simple as that. The writing was easy and the exercises took time well spent. Doing this "book club" style with one's partner is the way to go! Read full review


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About the author (1994)

Otto Kroeger is a bestselling author and expert in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator(r) (MBTI(r)) Assessment. He served as president of the Association of Psychological Type International and is a current member of the National Training Laboratory Institute of Applied Behavioral Sciences. Kroeger has coauthored four leading books on personality: "Type Talk", "Type Talk at Work", "16 Ways to Love Your Lover", and "Personality Type and Religious Leadership".

Thuesen is Managing Partner of Otto Kroeger Associates. She conducts seminars on interpreting typological skills. She has been a teacher and counselor and has served as Assistant Director of Organizational Development at the White House.

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