Covenant Marriage: Building Communication & Intimacy

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B&H Publishing Group, 2003 - Family & Relationships - 215 pages
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The Covenant Marriage movement encourages Christians to exercise the promises and expectations of God's covenant love in marriage. Practicing Covenant Marriage means couples must offer each other steadfast loyalty, forgiveness, empathy, and commitment to resolving conflict so as to encourage each other in spiritual growth. In this new book, Dr. Chapman shows how communication and intimacy are two of the most important aspects to developing a successful Covenant Marriage. At the heart of it all are the principles that lasting answers to martial growth are found in the Bible, your relationship with God enhances your marriage relationship, communication is the primary vehicle by which two persons become one in the marriage relationship, and the idea of biblical oneness involves not only sex, but intellectual, spiritual, emotional, and social oneness.

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Gary Chapman's book Now You're Speaking My Language focuses on communication, which he claims is the most fundamental for building marital intimacy. Filled with practical principles and loads of ... Read full review

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Author does a nice job of truthfully letting you know what a marriage needs to survive honest open and effective communication. Brings attention to the words you choose to say what you want to say ... Read full review


Covenant Marriages
Covenant Marriages Dream or Reality?
Whats So Important about Intimacy?
Unhealthy Patterns of Communication
Five Levels of Communication
Getting to KnowYourself
Getting to KnowYourself
Making Time for the Important
Identifying Our Differences
Why Do I Get So Defensive?
IntimacyNaked and Unashamed
Emotional Intimacy
Sexual Intimacy
Spiritual Intimacy
Why Didnt Someone Tell Me?

Learning the Art of SelfRevelation
Getting Ready to Grow

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Relationship counselor, pastor, and author Gary Chapman graduated from Moody Bible Institute, received a B.A. and M.A. in Anthropology from Wheaton College and Wake Forest University respectively, completed graduate work in education at Duke University and the University of North Carolina, and earned his Ph.D. in Adult Education and Master's of Religious Education from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. Chapman has discussed his five love language theory in numerous books and video programs, and he has also written many works of guidance on the topics of marriage, parenting, and in-law relationships. The director of Marriage and Family Life Consultants, Inc., Chapman has also been the senior associate pastor at Winston-Salem, North Carolina's Calvary Baptist Church since 1971. He has spoken internationally and domestically on relationships and received the Platinum Book Award from the Evangelical Publishers Association for The Five Love Languages. He also made The New York Times Best Seller List with The Five Love Languages of Children in 2015.

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