Motherhood: How Should We Care for Our Children?

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Allen & Unwin, 2005 - Family & Relationships - 379 pages
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Covers the debates over early institutional childcare, the problems of reconciling work and family life, the crisis of fertility, and the impact of the new capitalism on the changing landscape of childhood.
 

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Contents

Down among the children
1
Two paths to womens equality
19
Equality as sameness the loneliness of the postmodern cowgirl
31
Meeting General Custen maternal feminism and the ethic of care
52
The invisible heart the shadow economy of care
69
What do women want?
87
Inside the skin of a child
111
First love its light and shadow
134
Affluenza the new ethic of work and spend
239
The making of the New Capitalist Mother
258
The McDonaldisation of childhood
282
The gift of time
304
Up amongst the men
314
Endnotes
321
Bibliography
339
Selected further reading
361

The dark side of the moon
158
Electing a new child truth lies and the childcare debate
183
The childcare warsresolved
216
Acknowledgements
367
Index
369
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Page 119 - The deep remembrance of the sense I had of being utterly neglected and hopeless; of the shame I felt in my position; of the misery it was to my young heart to believe that, day by day, what I had learned, and thought, and delighted in, and raised my fancy and my emulation up by, was passing away from me, never to be brought back any more; cannot be written.
Page 87 - What is now called the nature of women is an eminently artificial thing — the result of forced repression in some directions, unnatural stimulation in others.
Page 258 - It has pitilessly torn asunder the motley feudal ties that bound man to his "natural superiors," and has left remaining no other nexus between man and man than naked self-interest, than callous "cash payment." It has drowned the most heavenly ecstasies of religious fervor, of chivalrous enthusiasm, of philistine sentimentalism, in the icy water of egotistical calculation. It has...
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Page 100 - Disagree that a preschool child is likely to suffer if his or her mother works. 6. Agree that a working mother can establish just as warm and secure a relationship with her children as a mother who does not work.
Page 119 - Your home might be far from perfect, but at least it was a place ruled by love rather than by fear, where you did not have to be perpetually on your guard against the people surrounding you. At eight years old you were suddenly taken out of this warm nest and flung into a world of force and fraud and secrecy, like a goldfish into a tank full of pike. Against no matter what degree of bullying...
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Page 5 - At the bottom of the heart of every human being, from earliest infancy until the tomb, there is something that goes on indomitably expecting, in the teeth of all experience of crimes committed, suffered, and witnessed, that good and not evil will be done to him. It is this above all that is sacred in every human being.
Page 88 - It is necessary to society that women should marry and produce children. They will not do so unless they are compelled. Therefore it is necessary to compel them.

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Anne Manne is a writer and social commentator who has written widely on feminism, motherhood, childcare, family policy, fertility, and other related issues. She is a feature writer for the Age and her longer essays on feminism, family life, the changing landscape of childhood, and the current crisis of fertility have appeared in the Australian's Review of Books, Quadrant magazine, Arena magazine and Monash University Journal People and Place. She also contributed to Cries Unheard: A New Look at Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, edited by child psychiatrist George Halasz.

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