Real Love: The Truth about Finding Unconditional Love & Fulfilling Relationships

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Penguin, Jan 19, 2004 - Psychology - 288 pages
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"He rocked my foundation! Greg Baer touched me deeply. He's got the answer to finding happiness in life."—Tony Trupiano, Talk America

Why do most of us search our entire lives for loving and happy relationships but rarely find them? What is the "secret something" that all relationships need in order to thrive? Dr. Greg Baer found the answers to these questions while working with thousands of individuals and couples. In Real Love, he shares his enlightening and practical blueprint for creating successful relationships and reveals the secret to finding and keeping what he calls "Real Love."

In Real Love, you'll discover:

·         The difference between Imitation Love and Real Love
·         How to eliminate conflicts with spouses, children, parents, friends and colleagues
·         How to put an end to destructive “Getting” and “Protecting” behaviors
·         How Real Love can eliminate anger, resentment, and fear
·         The four steps to finding Real Love

With Real Love as your guide you can begin to heal the wounds of your past and create rewarding and fulfilling relationships in every area of your life.


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The Single Most Helpful Relationship Book

User Review  - Avid Self Help Reader - Borders

Over the years, I have read many self help and relationship books. This book is the single best source of information that I have found. The book discusses all relationships (not just romantic ones) and gives you a new way to look at situations. Read full review

Unconditionally Recommended

User Review  - Lyricalady - Borders

Though the theory may appear to be repetitive, the author is very effective in illustrating why so many people suffer through life feeling chronically angry, disappointed, and unhappy in their ... Read full review


The Missing Ingredient What Relationships
The Missing Ingredient Real Love and Genuine Happiness
The Tale of
Loved The Truth About Relationships and Individual
Choices The Difference Between Asking and Expecting
Everyday Wise
The Effect of Real Love Like Money
Real Love Is Like Money in the Bank The Effect of Real Love
Loved We Cant Give What We Dont Have Seeing
Telling the Truth About Ourselves Telling the Truth About
Dealing With Obstacles on the Path to Real
Eliminating Conflict Dealing with Getting and Protecting

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About the author (2004)

For twenty years, Greg Baer, M.D. was a highly successful surgeon, teacher, civic leader, and entrepreneur. But despite all his accomplishments, wealth, and respect, he felt empty and unhappy. He became a drug addict and nearly committed suicide. In his subsequent search for genuine happiness, he learned some principles that have changed the lives of hundreds of thousands. After Dr. Baer retired from one of the busiest solo eye surgery practices in the United States, he began a new career of writing, teaching, and speaking. He has so far written 17 books about relationships, marriage, and parenting, which have been translated into multiple languages, and published worldwide; produced the three-CD audio series, The Truth About Love and Lies; produced the six-DVD set (with Workbook) The Essentials of Real Love; produced the PBS television special, Real Answers, viewed nationwide; appeared on over 1500 radio and television programs from coast to coast in the United States; counseled personally with thousands of individuals and couples, profoundly changing their lives with the principles and power of Real Love; written thousands of blogs; conducted over 300 seminars and corporate trainings and delivered speeches to audiences around the world where he has taught the principles of Real Love; and developed a comprehensive website that offers Real Love education through video coaching, thousands of blogs, weekly video chats, support forums, and much more. An extensive Master Index is conveniently available to help you navigate through these resources. Dr. Baer and his wife, Donna, are the parents of seven children and live in Rome, Georgia.

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