Yossarian Slept Here: When Joseph Heller Was Dad, the Apthorp Was Home, and Life Was a Catch-22THROUGHOUT ERICA HELLER’S LIFE, when people learned that Joseph Heller was her father, they often remarked, “How terrific!” But was there a catch? Like his most famous work, her father was a study in contradictions: eccentric, brilliant, and voracious, but also mercurial, competitive, and stubborn, with a love of mischief that sometimes cut too close to the bone. Being raised by such a larger than- life personality could be claustrophobic, even at the sprawling Upper West Side apartments of the Apthorp, which the Hellers called home—in one way or another—for forty-five years. Yossarian Slept Here is Erica Heller’s wickedly funny but also poignant and incisive memoir about growing up in a family—her iconic father; her wry, beautiful mother, Shirley; her younger brother, Ted; her relentlessly inventive grandmother Dottie—that could be by turns caring, infuriating, and exasperating, though anything but dull. From the forbidden pleasures of ordering shrimp cocktail when it was beyond the family’s budget to spending a summer, as her father’s fame grew, at the Beverly Hills Hotel, Erica details the Hellers’ charmed—and charmingly turbulent— trajectory. She offers a rare glimpse of meetings with the Gourmet Club, where her father would dine weekly with Mel Brooks, Zero Mostel, and Mario Puzo, among others (and from which all wives and children were strictly verboten). She introduces us to many extraordinary residents of the Apthorp, some famous—George Balanchine, Sidney Poitier, and Lena Horne, to name a few—and some not famous, but all quite memorable. Yet she also manages to limn the complex bonds of loyalty and guilt, hurt and healing, that define every family. Erica was among those present at her father’s bedside as he struggled to recover from Guillain-Barré syndrome and then cared for her mother when Shirley was diagnosed with terminal cancer after the thirty-eight-year marriage and intensely passionate partnership with Joe had ended. Witty and perceptive, and displaying the descriptive gifts of a born storyteller, this authentic and colorful portrait of life in the Heller household unfolds alongside the saga of the family’s moves into four distinctive apartments within the Apthorp, each representing a different phase of their lives together—and apart. It is a story about achieving a dream; about fame and its aftermath; about lasting love, squandered opportunities, and how to have the best meal in Chinatown. |
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User Review - Thomas.Cannon - LibraryThingA great book. Erica gave a lot of insights into the man and author. She related some crazy and sad things about her dad that I almost wish I didn't know. Read full review
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User Review - Thomas_Cannon - LibraryThingA great book. Erica gave a lot of insights into the man and author. She related some crazy and sad things about her dad that I almost wish I didn't know. Read full review
Contents
TWO TOUGH COOKIESONE RECIPE FOR DISASTER | |
COLD COMFORTHOT BUTTERSCOTCH | |
LONG BEACH SHORT STOPS | |
GOTTLIEB TO THE RESCUE | |
ALAS THE CENTER WOULD NOT HOLD | |
1980 THE MAN WITH A PLAN | |
CLAUS IN THE HOUSE | |
HELLER EXEUNT | |
THE GIMLETEYED JOURNALIST THE ANTSY NOVELIST AND THE PREDICTION THAT CAME TRUE | |
PART 3 | |
SHIRLEYS NEW HUSBAND | |
THE NURSE IN THE LIMEGREEN SWEATER | |
WHERE THE HELL DID YOU EVERLEARN TO EAT LIKE THAT? | |
PART 2 | |
PRACTICE MAKES IMPERFECT | |
LET THERE BE SHRIMP | |
HELLERS COMPLAINT | |
THE INS AND OUTS OF THE APTHORP UPS AND DOWNS | |
HE COULD WRITEHE JUST COULDNT SHOP | |
A BROTHER BY ANY OTHER NAME | |
POWERFUL EVERLASTING LOVE x 2 | |
MARIO PUZO AN AUTHORYOU CANT REFUSE | |
BLAME IT ON THE BOSSA NOVA | |
OF BOMBS AND BOMBOLONI | |
DID I DARE TO EAT A PEACH? | |
MIKE NICHOLSA SUNDAY MORNING AND THEWRITER FROM CONEY WHO CRIED | |
CRITICAL MASS | |
ONLY PARTLY TO DO WITH SEX | |
BLOODY HELL | |
THE PRESIDENT RESIGNS SHIRLEY BEGINS TO DEFECT | |
A SURPRISE PARTY WITH THE WRONG KIND OF SURPRISE | |
TOLSTOY THE CIRCUS AND THE GRADUATION THAT ALMOST WASNT | |
THEYLL ALWAYS HAVE PARIS OR ONLY SOMETIMES? | |
NO NOBEL BUT INSTEAD A LOVELY SWEDISH FRIENDSHIP | |
SO WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED WITH SOMETHING HAPPENED? | |
LONG DAYS JOURNEY NOT INTO WOODYS PARTY | |
LIMOS AND LYNX | |
MILO MINDERBINDER AND THE CASE OF THE MYSTERIOUSLY VANISHING SLIPCOVERS | |
CURRIED TUNA VALIUM AND CANCER | |
THE THEATER OF RAGE | |
JOYEUSES FÊTES? ALMOST | |
SHE WAS MEANT TO GROW OLD IN PARIS | |
DOTTIE IN THE DARK | |
AU REVOIR A LA APTHORPIA? | |
GRIEF MIT SCHLAG | |
APTHORPIUS EVICTUS? | |
ASHES TO ASHES DUST TO DUSTBUSTER | |
PART 4 | |
NO APARTMENTS TOO GOOD FOR MY LITTLE GIRL | |
THE WOMAN WITH A GUILLOTINE ON SOUTH OCEAN DRIVE | |
THEY JUST DANCED | |
IK HOU VAN JE MEANS I LOVE YOU IN DUTCH | |
LIKE THOSE DIVERS WHO LEAP OFF A CLIFF IN ACAPULCO | |
THE BEST CHINESE DUMPLINGS IN LA? | |
AMIS TO IMUS FIRST AND LASTING IMPRESSIONS | |
TEA SYMPATHY AND JUST A LITTLE BIT OF A LAWSUIT | |
WHISTLING PAST A GRAVEYARD FILLED WITH POT ROAST? | |
THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM IS FIFTY YEARS OLD AND 464 PAGES LONG | |
THE RECIPE FOR DOTTIE HELDS 10000 POT ROAST | |
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS | |
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Yossarian Slept Here: When Joseph Heller Was Dad, the Apthorp Was Home, and ... Erica Heller No preview available - 2013 |
Yossarian Slept Here: When Joseph Heller was Dad and Life was a Catch-22 Erica Heller No preview available - 2012 |
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