A Life of One's Own

Marion Milner

Taylor & Francis, Mar 23, 2011 - Literary Collections - 224 pages

How often do we ask ourselves, ‘What will make me happy? What do I really want from life?’ In A Life of One’s Own Marion Milner explores these questions and embarks on a seven year personal journey to discover what it is that makes her happy.

On its first publication, W. H. Auden found the book ‘as exciting as a detective story’ and, as Milner searches out clues, the reader quickly becomes involved in the chase. Using her own personal diaries, kept over many years, she analyses moments of everyday life and discovers ways of being, of looking, of moving, that bring surprising joy – ways which can be embraced by anyone.

With a new introduction by Rachel Bowlby this classic remains a great adventure in thinking and living and will be essential reading for all those interested in reflecting on the nature of their own happiness – whether readers from a literary, an artistic, a historical, an educational or a psychoanalytic/psychotherapeutic background.

Contents

• 1 First questions: 1
• 2 Keeping a diary: 14
• 3 Exploring the hinterland: 34
• 4 The coming and going of delight: 46
• 5 Searching for a purpose: 57
• 6 Searching for a rule: 70
• 7 Two ways of looking: 76
• 8 Discovering that thought can be blind: 83
• 9 Watching the antics of blind thinking: 92
• 10 The escape from blind thinking: 100
• 11 Fear of a dragon: 108
• 12 More outcasts of thought: 116
• 13 Relaxing: 130
• 14 Carthorse or Pegasus?: 139
• 15 Discovery of the other: 149
• 16 Retrospect: 156
• Epilogue: 165
• Afterword: 173

About the author

Marion Milner (1900-1998) was a distinguished British psychoanalyst, educationalist, autobiographer and artist.

Bibliographic information

• Title: A Life of One's Own; The Collected Works of Marion Milner
• Author: Marion Milner
• Edition: illustrated, reprint, revised
• Publisher: Taylor & Francis, 2011
• ISBN: 1136727450, 9781136727450
• Length: 224 pages
• Subjects: Literary Collections / Diaries & Journals; Psychology / Cognitive Psychology & Cognition; Psychology / Mental Health; Psychology / Movements / Psychoanalysis; Psychology / Psychotherapy / General; Self-Help / Personal Growth / General; Self-Help / Personal Growth / Happiness; Self-Help / Personal Growth / Success; Social Science / Gender Studies; Social Science / Regional Studies