Conscious Dating: Finding the Love of Your Life in Today's World

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Relationship Coaching Institute, 2006 - Dating - 342 pages
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Contents

Gain Relationship KnowledgeSkills
SECRETS OF HAPPINESS
THE 10 DIRTY SECRETS OF HAPPINESS
YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOU DONT KNOW
LEARN THESE TOP 10 RELATIONSHIP ATTITUDES
LEARN THESE TOP 10 RELATIONSHIP ATTITUDES
FACTS JUDGMENTS AND FEELINGS
Create a Support Community

FUTURIST VISION OF MARRIAGE
Please refer to Chapter 15 to write your answers
2 What Do We Really Want?
WANTING A SOUL MATE
THE MIRACLE OF CONNECTION
LOVE AND SURVIVAL
SEVEN BENEFITS OF A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP
SEVEN BENEFITS OF A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP
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The 14 Dating Traps
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4 Being Single Is an Opportunity
THE SINGLES BLUES
LEARNING BY FALLING DOWN
YOURE SINGLE FOR A REASON
YOUR MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION
THE NEW SINGLE VERSUS THE OLD SINGLE
MAKING THE MOST OF BEING SINGLE
USING OUR RELATIONSHIPS AS MIRRORS
CREATING A SUPPORT COMMUNITY
Please refer to Chapter 15 to write your answers
Know Who You AreWhat You Want
WHAT IS YOUR VISION?
WHAT ARE YOUR REQUIREMENTS?
WHAT ABOUT LOVE?
CREATING A CRYSTAL CLEAR VISION
WHAT ARE YOUR NEEDS?
EMOTIONAL NEEDS
NEEDS
NEEDINESS
Learn How to Get What You Want
WHAT YOU BELIEVE YOU CAN ACHIEVE
WHAT ARE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BELIEFS?
CHOOSING EFFECTIVE BELIEFS AND ATTITUDES
YOUR CONSCIOUS DATING STRATEGY
PUTTING YOUR TOOLS TO USE
Be The Chooser
ARE YOU A CHOOSER OR A VICTIM?
AIM TO BE THE CHOOSER
I WANT TO BE THE CHOOSER BUT
ARE YOU THE PURSUER OR THE PURSUED?
HOW CAN YOU BECOME THE CHOOSER?
Balance Your Heart with Your Head
ITS HOT AROUND HERE
EMOTIONAL CHEMISTRY
USING YOUR HEAD OR LOSING YOUR HEART?
LOVE VERSUS ATTACHMENT
WHAT ABOUT CHEMISTRY?
YOUR HEAD CAN HELP YOUR HEART
Results
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Be ReadyAvailable for Commitment
ARE YOU READY?
MEETING THE GROPER
RECREATIONAL DATING
COMMITTED DATING
MINIMARRIAGE
GETTING READY FOR WHAT YOU WANT
Use the Law of Attraction
ITS NEVER TOO LATE TO DATE
LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE
LOOKING FOR THE PERFECT PACKAGE
BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR
GETTING WHAT YOU DESERVE
WHERE IS YOUR COMMUNITY?
BREAKING OUT OF ISOLATION
WHO WILL YOU PROMOTE? WHO WILL YOU DEMOTE?
CREATE YOUR SUPPORT COMMUNITY
ITS TIME TO ENLIST HELP
Practice Assertiveness
PRACTICE PRACTICE
WHAT ARE YOUR BOUNDARIES?
WHAT ARE YOUR EXPECTATIONS WHEN YOURE DATING?
PROACTIVE ASSERTIVENESS
ISSUES ARE UNMET NEEDS
STUCK IN THE PAST
NOT READY FOR THAT FIRST KISS
Be a Successful Single
SEEKING FROM WANT VERSUS NEED
INVESTING IN YOURSELF
HOWS YOUR SOCIAL LIFE?
THE JOURNEY VERSUS THE DESTINATION
ARE YOU A SUCCESSFUL SINGLE?
BECOMING A SUCCESSFUL SINGLE
15 Your Conscious Dating Plan You are now familiar with the principles and strategies of
WHAT IS YOUR READINESS STATUS?
Exercise No 5 Chapter 5 Page 109
Exercise No 6 Chapter 10 Page 203
WHAT ARE YOUR STRATEGIES FOR SCOUTING SORTING SCREENINGTESTING?
Exercise No 9 Chapter 10 Page 203
WHAT ARE YOUR BOUNDARIES?
Exercise No 11 Chapter 8 Page 169
Exercise No 12 Chapter 9 189
Exercise No 14 Chapter 12 Page 240
HOW WILL YOU STAY ON TRACK?
WHAT IS YOUR EXIT STRATEGY?
HOW WILL YOU TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF?
PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER
Exercise No 19
Is This The One?
AM I STILL IN THE TESTING STAGE?
TRYING TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP WORK
ATTACHMENT VERSUS LOVE
IS THIS THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP FOR ME?
EVOLVE VS PUSH VS TWIST
PRECOMMITMENT AND COHABITATION
FACT VERSUS ATTITUDE
CONSCIOUS MATING
CONSCIOUS VERSUS UNCONSCIOUS PRECOMMITMENT
CONCLUSION
EPILOGUE
WHERE ARE THEY NOW?
Mark
Cathy
Seth
Dorothy
DONT WASTE A MOMENT MORE
Appendixes
B CONSCIOUS DATING GLOSSARY
C FREE CONSCIOUS DATING AUDIO PROGRAM
E ADVANCED CONSCIOUS DATING INFORMATIONSTRATEGIES
REFERENCES
CHAPTER 3
CHAPTER 4
CHAPTER 8
BIBLIOGRAPHY
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