For Better, for Worse: British Marriages, 1600 to the Present

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Oxford University Press, 1985 - Family & Relationships - 417 pages
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Did you know that...The "contemporary" fashion of living together before marriage is far from new, and was frequently practiced in earlier days...Self-divorce, although never legal, was once a commonplace occurrence...Marriage is more popular today than in the Victorian era...Marriage in church was not compulsory in England and Wales until the mid-18th century. These are just a few of the fascinating, and often surprising, revelations in For Better, For Worse, the most comprehensive treatment to date of the history of marriage in a major Western society. Using fresh evidence from popular courtship and wedding rituals over four centuries, Gillis challenges the widely held belief that marriage has evolved from a cold, impersonal arrangement to a more affectionate, egalitarian form of companionship. The truth, argues Gillis, lies somewhere in between: conjugal love was never wholly absent in preindustrial times, while today's marriages are less companionate than is commonly believed. Gillis also illustrates, in rich detail, the perpetual tension between marital ideals and actual practices. This social history of the behavior and emotions of ordinary men and women radically revises our perspective on love and marriage in the past--and the present.
 

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Noted social historian Gillis calls his richly detailed and meticulously researched study a "historical anthropology'' because he focuses on the role marriage and its rituals have played in the life ... Read full review

Contents

Introduction
3
Courtship and Marriage in the Sixteenth and Seventeenth Centuries
9
Conflict and Change in the Age of Agrarian and Industrial Revolution 17501850
107
The Era of Mandatory Marriage 18501960
229
Conjugal Myths and Marital Realities 1960 to the Present
305
Appendix
322
Notes
323
Bibliography
385
Index
409
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