For Better Or for Worse: Divorce ReconsideredMavis Hetherington, "without doubt the world's preeminent researcher on the family processes that surround divorce,...has distilled the wisdom growing out of her many studies of the short-term and long-term impact of divorce on family members" (Eleanor Maccoby, Stanford University). Offering "a welcome corrective to misleading and simplistic accounts," Hetherington "not only provides scientifically sound and wonderfully sensible guidance but dispels the myth that divorce is always negative" (Ross D. Parke, University of California, Riverside). This "widely-heralded study" (Time) is a "reader-friendly guide to how people can build success out of the stress and adversity of divorce" (Michael Rutter, Institute of Psychiatry, London), presenting a more nuanced picture of marital breakup—not as a momentary event but as a life process. Hetherington identifies the kinds of marriages that predispose a couple to divorce or not and also pinpoints "windows of change" that allow some to fashion the challenges of divorce into an opportunity for themselves and for their children. "Gold standard [research] aimed at clearing up confusion among moms and dads worried about divorce."—USA Today "Sure to become a classic in the field!"—Constance R. Ahrons, author of The Good Divorce "Without doubt the world's preeminent researcher on the family processes that surround divorce."—Eleanor Maccoby, Stanford University "A welcome corrective to misleading and simplistic accounts...dispels the myth that divorce is always negative."—Ross D. Parke, University of California, Riverside |
Contents
A New Story About Divorce | 1 |
THE EXPERIENCE OF DIVORCE CHILDREN AND ADULTS IN THE FIRST SIX YEARS | 17 |
The His and Her Marriage the His and Her Divorce | 19 |
Leaving and Letting Go Changes and New Chances in the First Two Years After Divorce | 43 |
The Balance of Happiness Why People Succeed or Fail After Divorce | 67 |
Six Ways to Leave a Marriage The Pathways Men and Women Take Out of Divorce | 94 |
Incompetent Bullies and Undisciplined Disciplinarians Children and Parents in the First Two Years After Divorce | 110 |
What Helps and What Hurts Childrens Adjustment Six Years After Divorce | 124 |
Building a Stepfamily | 181 |
Welcome to Peer World Why Teens from Divorced and Remarried Families Leave Home Earlier and Get into Trouble More Often | 203 |
IN THE HOME STRETCH ADULTS AND CHILDREN TWENTY YEARS LATER | 225 |
Mostly Happy Children of Divorce as Young Adults | 227 |
Win Lose and Draw Adults Twenty Years Later | 254 |
Lessons Learned in Fortyfive Years of Studying Families | 275 |
The Three Studies | 281 |
Selected References | 289 |
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For Better Or for Worse: Divorce Reconsidered Mavis E Hetherington,John Kelly No preview available - 2003 |
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