Pamela Lister researches and writes many of Redbook's sex and marriage articles as well as answering readers' questions in the magazine's immensely popular Red Hot Sex section. With her many years of covering marriage and sex trends in America, she is intimately familiar with what married couples want from their private lives today. One of her most significant projects was to poll 10,000 men and women online about their sex lives. The complete results - shocking, surprising, inspiring - are analyzed here for the first time. Her work has also appeared in Good Housekeeping, Oprah, TIME, The New York Times, American Health, New Woman, Working Mother, SELF, Mirabella and The Columbia Journalist Review.